There is responsibility of all to choose, they need to respond with repentance and come to faith for salvation which Christ makes possible. God gives salvation, from God's own work, on such basis.
I respectfully disagree....
True, repentance and faith are a set (so to speak) but nowhere does Scripture mandate a certain sequence and nowhere does Scripture state that the gift of faith is dependent upon the dead unregenerate enemy of God FIRST repenting.
But I think my greatest problem with your condition is not that it's not found in Scripture (or Tradition) but that it means that Jesus saves those who FIRST have performed a good work... it's a reward for the dead, lifeless, enemy of God (entirely void of God) having DONE something. It's salvation dependent upon our good works (well, one good work).
I believe that Jesus is the Savior. He saves. It is "dependent" upon HIM (and He alone) since He is the Savior (and He alone). If there are conditions, He does them... not the unsaved, dead, lifeless, unregenerate enemy of God void of God. Now, YES, of course, faith ON OUR PART is necessary to secure/apprehend the saving work of Jesus (ALONE) but even there, it's not our good work since faith is the "free gift of God" as Scripture says.
You need to read a lot into Acts 16:30-33 without any basis from any scriptures to conclude that all in the household were baptized without repentance and coming to faith for salvation which Christ made possible.
I believe the opposite is true. It makes an ENORMOUS assumption - a LOT of eisegesis - to insist that (although Scripture says NOTHING of our sort), every person baptized in those "households" FIRST (before coming to life, before having a relationship with God, before the Holy Spirit) FIRST repended to God (before they believe in God, before they hold that God forgives, before they can have forgiveness)... FIRST recited "the Sinner's Prayer"... FIRST jumped through who knows how many hoops... and the dead, lifeless, atheist, enemy of God did all kinds of good works... only THEN were they given life, the Holy Spirit, faith and forgiveness, a reward for the unregenerate atheist enemy of God doing good works (void of faith). No. I think that's forcing a LOT of stuff into the text....things IMO contrary to Scripture which says that our works do NOT save... which says Jesus is the Savior (not self)... that says salvation is "the free gift of God lest any have reason to boast."
Infants are certainly not with the capacity to choose in these ways
Nor is the 60 year old man with 5 Ph.D's, an IQ of 230 and with every word of the Bible memorized. NO ONE is CAPABLE of even saying Jesus is Lord without the Holy Spirit. Faith and salvation are the FREE GIFT of God lest ANYONE (including said genius) have any reason to claim anything for themselves. There is one Savior. The job is taken. He does it. He does it all, He does it right.
the issue is whether those things have what is written in the Bible being understood differently than what was intended. And this is what is happening.
Well, in the last 450 years or so. Before that, 100% of Christians embraced infant baptism. It wasn't until the Anabaptist movement in Germany in the late 16th Century that a TINY number of Christians first began to see some prohibition in the Bible to baptize before the age of we-won't-tell-you." The fairly recent (and still rare) innovation is this prohibition.... not infant baptism.
Blessings on your Advent season!
Josiah
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