Are Catholics just about rules, regulations, and (supposed) Marian worship? Or do they get to have occasional fun? Are they like you and me? Do they read the bible for themselves and discern what it says?
Well, I am an Ancient Faith Eastern Catholic and I can tell you that we are not rule-bound legalists worshiping Mary...
And having said that, I can tell you this:
I met a guy who grew up in an eastern block country who was a Roman Catholic...
And when I told him I was Orthodox and asked him if there were many in his country...
He said: "Yes - In the eastern half especially - Full of those HARD CORE ORTHODOX Christians..."
I asked him what he meant by that, and he said:
"They keep the ancient fasts, daily and weekly and throughout the year...
They do the Services of the Church morning and night all the time...
They do all night vigils and sin very little and work and are busy all the time..."
And it is all voluntary...
So over there, with all its legal focus of rules and regulations, the actually practice of the Faith is much more lax in the Latin Church than that of the Slavic EOC... Here as well - The Fasts of the Church are now voluntary for the Latin Church, instead of prescribed, and involve someone denying themselves something they really like for the duration of the fast - iow Fasts are self-prescribed rather than Ecclesiastically prescribed... The Wednesday Fast is all but forgotten for the Latins... And the daily fast from supper to breakFAST is unknown... Let alone the Friday Fast from fish and meats... These are all a part of the Praxis of the Ancient Christian Faith from the beginnings, and are virtually unknown and seem opprobrious to western understandings... The Ancient Faith is very prescribed and regulated, and within it life is very simple and rich in prayer and labors and love... Indeed, it can be seen as the Obedience of Love...
You would think that it would be the reverse, but it is not...
And it is not that the Latin Church does not take its Faith unseriously...
But the Ancient Faith that is Mystically focused in discipling the faithful without myriad rules and legalisms and spelled out catechisms ends up with a much more rigorous phronema of praxis, imo...
Arsenios