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I hope you will find a nice man messy. I don't think I ever will.
If I succeed it should give you hope. I gave up totally. Noone wants to take care of 3 small kids although they might say so if they can't find anything else. I made a thread in cf singles 2 years back or so: do you think I should even try? Would you date someone with 3 kids? Ehm well they were really nice but the answer was unanimously no. And I hadn't even mentioned my past lol, they normally run away screaming when I answer those questions. I read one good one on Facebook. A man said when I was a kid and my brother came with a piece of candy he got from my mom, the thought wouldn't even cross my mind to think she only had one for him. I'd go to my mom and say: Where's mine? She always had them for us both. So if you see God blessing someone just say: Hey where's mine? Lord I pray for Ruth that she finds rest from all this dating stuff and that You comfort her and that You send the one You have for her on her path in Jesus' Name.
 
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If I succeed it should give you hope. I gave up totally. Noone wants to take care of 3 small kids although they might say so if they can't find anything else. I made a thread in cf singles 2 years back or so: do you think I should even try? Would you date someone with 3 kids? Ehm well they were really nice but the answer was unanimously no. And I hadn't even mentioned my past lol, they normally run away screaming when I answer those questions. I read one good one on Facebook. A man said when I was a kid and my brother came with a piece of candy he got from my mom, the thought wouldn't even cross my mind to think she only had one for him. I'd go to my mom and say: Where's mine? She always had them for us both. So if you see God blessing someone just say: Hey where's mine? Lord I pray for Ruth that she finds rest from all this dating stuff and that You comfort her and that You send the one You have for her on her path in Jesus' Name.

Thank you for praying for me Messy. I'm really not feeling interested in men after my last experience with the womanizers.
 

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Thank you for praying for me Messy. I'm really not feeling interested in men after my last experience with the womanizers.

Well then I'll pray you get some good rest and a good hug from Him. After those scammers I went to a service. He said: the Holy Spirit is madly in love with you and wants a relationship with you. All my time goes in talking to this one, that one. My goodness, I crush on everyone who says hi. If I would just use my brain this guy can't be the one either. I really need some rest and focus on praying or something. I first need confirmation before I keep on talking.
 
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Well then I'll pray you get some good rest and a good hug from Him. After those scammers I went to a service. He said: the Holy Spirit is madly in love with you and wants a relationship with you. All my time goes in talking to this one, that one. My goodness, I crush on everyone who says hi. If I would just use my brain this guy can't be the one either. I really need some rest and focus on praying or something. I first need confirmation before I keep on talking.

Thanks. I hope you will get some rest now.
 

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I'll just go to the pet shop and buy me a dog, that's so much easier.
 
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I'll just go to the pet shop and buy me a dog, that's so much easier.

I have a great dog. Keeps me from getting too lonely!
 

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Well I just go on. What else is there to do lol. I have been chatting to that guy from Facebook til yesterday and he's cute but I dunno. He's so young and he wants kids and he said he was quite severe, his sister didn't raise her kids well. Hmm. He's very neat and tidy and all those rules, I dunno. He asked if I thought if he was too strict with kids. I don't think so but better get them yourself with someone who's younger. Lol now all of a sudden my collegue who I stalked on Facebook in september started chatting, he had never seen my message.
 

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Oh my goodness now I am chatting with two at het same time. Lord help! This has to stop.
 

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I'll go post here. My ex Always sung this for fun. I love cheese and jam. His eyes are just as blue as yours.
 

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My goodness I even asked a dream interpretor on internet.
 

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Hey I asked the Lord: the one that responds with something that will speak to my heart that's the one. Well the guy I have been chatting with all this time so not the collegue says he's gonna eat. See? Cheese. I wanted to eat bread with cheese. That must be the one.
 

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The collegue just talked about work and church and now he doesn't respond anymore. I can't talk to 2 at the same time, I can't multitask. I wanted to say something to the collegue that I had been talking about with the other guy. Why goodness, why wasn't that dream more specific? I wonder what that dream interpretor will say. My brother was of no help either. Don't even know if that collegue is interested. If I hadn't contacted him he would have never contacted me. I had a crush on him a few months back. The other one just keeps chatting. He doesn't give up. I'm now posting all the video's from the praise thread to him.
 
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Sounds like you have your hands full with these 2 guys. I hope it works out for you with one of them. On the dating site I was sometimes talking to 4 or 5 at a time. It got confusing. Now I am talking to 2 guys. I don't have much hope for this, though, they always disappear. I really don't car either. lol
 

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Sounds like you have your hands full with these 2 guys. I hope it works out for you with one of them. On the dating site I was sometimes talking to 4 or 5 at a time. It got confusing. Now I am talking to 2 guys. I don't have much hope for this, though, they always disappear. I really don't car either. lol

hahahahahaha, no the collegue is quite quiet. At the office he never talks to me. The other one now has to chat with his other friends. He chats the whole day through with friends from Pakistan and everything. He sometimes chats with 5 at the same time he said.
Nice, I can finally catch some sleep then.
 

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This morning I read on Facebook that everything wants your attention and you just have to go away and spend time with Him. That is what I will do. I'll just shut my computer off and remove Messenger or something.

Doesn't work. When he doesn't app me for hours I miss him lol.
 
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I'm sorry you are missing him. Maybe things will change in your circumstance and things will improve. I'm hoping so.
 

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I'm sorry you are missing him. Maybe things will change in your circumstance and things will improve. I'm hoping so.
Oh he started chatting again. He chats every day. Lol all the guys I spoke from dating sites wanted to know your whole past immediately. Why are you divorced blablabla. Today we chatted about cats. Funny.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=si4go3Hraq8
 

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Oh he started chatting again. He chats every day. Lol all the guys I spoke from dating sites wanted to know your whole past immediately. Why are you divorced blablabla. Today we chatted about cats. Funny.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=si4go3Hraq8

That's nice. These guys on this site just stop writing to me all of a sudden. I guess it's because I won't give them my phone number right away. Oh well.
 
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