How many of you are dating or looking for a significant other?

[Rens]

That's nice. These guys on this site just stop writing to me all of a sudden. I guess it's because I won't give them my phone number right away. Oh well.

Oh yes that's also weird. They want to app and call on the phone and go on a date very quick, mostly when you talked a few days. I think it's almost 2 weeks now that I chat with him on Facebook. He only said he'd like to go evangelizing some day with me. Nothing pushy.

 

[Ruth]

That's nice. I can't stand these pushy guys on the dating web site!!

 

[Brighten04]

I wanted to share this with you ladies.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGIs5NtYV4g

 

[Rens]

I can't see it, maybe because I live in Holland. I found a new friend, got tired of posting on Facebook so much, my friends might think I'm nuts. I wanted something where I could post without my name and anyone knowing me, so now I found this great place where you can blog and found a new friend who was also lonely and complaining that people were leaving. He almost wanted to leave too. He's transgender, so I don't have to worry that he might want something from me. I don't know if I even want a relationship anymore.

 

[Rens]

It's annoying that he takes hours to respond, but on the other hand it's good. I can focus on the Lord. MrHappy once posted a prophetic song for me on cf: KC and the Sunshine band, Everybody wants you, I just want to make you mine oh mine lol. I guess he didn't hear that the text said I want to spend the night with you, but I did spend the whole night with the Lord. It was in the time when a drugaddict was after me and God had already told me NO.

 

[Ruth]

Hi. I forgot about this thread, sorry! I'm back at Plenty of Fish dating site but there's another site I might join now. It's for people with the same problems. Can't really say what it is here, though.

 

[Stravinsk]

Not dating, not looking, belong to no websites catered for this.

Not without interest though. She's just being sussed out over a longer period.

I once set up a profile on one of those websites - but only to look at someone else's who I knew had one there ointing:opworm::spy::nana::mischievous:rivateeye: :rotfl:

...then I realized I put waaaayyy too much detailed info. So I promptly transformed myself into a midget from a different state with different details. Surprisingly, the profile still gets curious looks from females in that area.

 

[Rens]

I gave up. Too much effort. Bought some rabbits instead.

 

[Rens]

Had a crush on a guy from christian chat for a few days. He waited too long with responding though and I think he's into someone else. I replace my crushes as quick as can be. Now I have a crush on a guy who just came out of a mental institution, he talked to me in the park, smoking a joint. I like those people best, they're real and honest and not arrogant.

 

[psalms 91]

Yeah when you have tought experiences in life it tends to make you humble

 

[Ruth]

I'm no longer looking for anyone, just penpals. I am writing to one guy who is a veteran and was adversely effected by agent orange.

 

[Stravinsk]

Not dating.

Not looking.

I keep my eye on various individuals, though.

It is an unfortunate experience I've had that too often the women who are interested in me, I'm not interested in, and vice versa. In my offline life, and online. Not always the case though, just often.

 

[Rens]

Couldn't handle it anymore with the kids alone yesterday. They think everything is a joke. I need a man. Let's go to a datingsite. Ah haven't tried this one yet. Describe how you look and your character.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qGIAOI1bYuw
What is your perfect match?
He doesn't exist, he likes to hang out with 3 kids and doesn't bother me about courting or dating, just old fashioned, see? he doesn't exist.
What do you want to change about yourself?
Well lemme see my whole personality
Got one response, same guy as last year who immediately tried to jump on it. Sigh. He talks to so much women, he doesn't even remember and then he wasn't even divorced and they could still get together, not gonna cause divorces. Lol I tried to get him back with his ex.
Oh well, so that was that I guess. It's like there's only 30 single christian men in Holland and they go to all these dating sites, you Always meet the same ones.
So forever alone it is again. Luckily I still have dad who took the kids now.

 

[Rens]

I'm gonna get married! I got a response from a cutie!
What are you attributing to the relationship?
I'll be a block on his leg, I filled in.
He said: well I can email, then you won't be a block on my leg immediately.

 

[Rens]

I don't expect much of it though. Two red flags: Dutch and a baptist.
Sorry baptists, don't think the evangelicals in Holland are any better, but I only met 3 baptists on those dating sites and not one was decent. Dutch reformed, when I see that I skip them since that one idiot came over who went to church 3 times a week.
If this guy is nice though I hope I didn't scare him away by giving him my Facebook page LOL where you see all my old profile pics like this one:

Oh my, so funny, once I was on an international dating site and a guy asked my Facebook page, but then I was still on it as a monkey to not be bothered, muhahahahaha. I said: do you like my pic? He said: no. Last thing I heard from him. My brother had a real good laugh about it though.

 

[Rens]

He apped that I looked like a felon in that jacket. Dutch way of flirting. Then he said he liked it, exiting. Don't know a gooood English word for that. It has a double meaning. Oh no not again such a type. Just removed whatsapp and my profile will be gone in 5 days. Removed the text, only have: never mind, I don't trust Dutch guys. Never met one who was decent and knew how to court. I'll wait 15 years and emigrate to America.

 

[Rens]

Now I miss cf singles where they could advise me if I did something stupid.
So I changed my profile into I'm bald and 2 meter and like paintball and my favorite match is Obama and now that guy responds: Really? You should hang out with me. He thinks I'm gay or at least a bored guy now. Dunno what to say back lol.

 

[psalms 91]

lol Messy what you manage to get yourself into

 

[Rens]

lol Messy what you manage to get yourself into

hahahahahahaha I create messes

 

[Stravinsk]

Now I miss cf singles where they could advise me if I did something stupid.
So I changed my profile into I'm bald and 2 meter and like paintball and my favorite match is Obama and now that guy responds: Really? You should hang out with me. He thinks I'm gay or at least a bored guy now. Dunno what to say back lol.

Are you still there? I haven't posted there in over a year now.

I miss some folks too but there are plenty I don't miss as well.

Of the latter, I don't think some of them realize how badly I can crucify some of them with their own words.

I'm tempted to do so often, and a grudging restraint keeps me in check.