The Resurrection isn't where the atonement was made. It's the cross and that's why the pastor pointed that out. Your forgiveness of sins, which is what you need to be reconciled to God, took place at the cross. The Resurrection is proof that God accepted the sacrifice because it means that Jesus lives, just as we will live when we are resurrected.
You still haven't addressed how the unregenerate can turn themselves to God without faith.
I'll answer your questions but I'd really like you to address the above about the unregenerate and especially how the Gospel is foolishness to the unbeliever.
It's God who makes us born again. Not ourselves.
I'm born again (which in the Greek is actually anothen meaning from above, proving it's God doing the work).
I have been a believer all my life for as long as I can remember so there is not "time" that I can pinpoint to you. God gave me faith. I didn't choose what God already gave to me.
Faith comes to us from God and it comes by His Word. That's simultaneous.
I didn't say the Resurrection is where the atonement was made. Your man, your video said the Resurrection doesn't save. And in that he is wrong. The Resurrection is as much a part of salvation as the Cross. Our salvation entails the Cross, the Death, the Resurrection, our faith.
I asked you to give the specific verse or verses you are speaking of. I know the verses you are speaking of, but I want you to give them so that I don't assume and then write a reply to which you say, that is not the verse you had in mind.
Of course it's God who gives us new-birth. I haven't said anything different. Where we differ is that you believe we are born-again first and then believe. I reject that totally. The Holy Spirit's work in convicting us and pressing on our spirit the need for a Saviour, leading us to receive, and believe on Jesus Christ....is that all done after we are born again?
The verse you are referring to is (John3:3). It does mean to be 'born from above'. Then in (John 3:5) the new birth is addressed. But, the verse I gave you was (1 Peter 1:3). It speaks to the new-birth. Which means, we are born again by the Resurrection of Jesus Christ. That occurs when we believe.
This is why your man on the video is wrong. On this side of the Cross, if you are not born-again, you are not saved. And your born-again by the Resurrection. The Cross plays a role of course. But if you are not born-again, you are not saved.
Also, do you adhere to 'Limited Atonement'?
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