You seem to either be running from what you posted or unaware of what you posted or regard yourself unaccountable for what you posted....
You don't seem to be in falseness, you definitely are. You think wrong about a lot of things.
You stated God elects those who OBEY and love him.
It is what God says.
Proverbs 8:17 I love those who love me,
John 14:21 The person who has my commandments and obeys them is the one who loves me. The one who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and will reveal myself to him."
John 14:23 Jesus replied, “Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them.
So... the unbeliever, the unregenerate, the one WITHOUT faith or spiritual life or the Holy Spirit, the one NOT born again.... you say God doesn't do ANYTHING.... hasn't even determined to do anything.... UNTIL that unbelieving, non-Christian OBEYS and LOVES Jesus.
God does NOT supernaturally put faith in your heart to believe when you do not.
Nowhere anywhere in the Bible does it say God does that.
GIVE THE SCRIPTURE NOW that say what you say. Give the scripture now that says God, with the Holy Spirit, causes people to believe and obey while they hate Him.
Your beliefs and teaching is made up. It is from making up things and God warns you not to do that.
Faith is from God, from reading His powerful message, the Bible, the New Testament. It has the powerful message that saves. We do not get faith supernaturally, as many teach, but we get faith in a very human way, from reading the supernatural message!
Our faith comes from HEARING the word, see Romans 10:17. From hearing the word and being TAUGHT, Colossians 1:5, 7. From continuing in what we have been CONVINCED of, see 2 Timothy 3:14, and being PERSUADED, 2 Corinthians 5:11.
That is where our faith comes from. Now stop preaching your stories about God supernaturally causing us to believe and obey. Repent of your sin of believing and preaching falseness. You are an enemy of God when you preach falseness. Paul says may you be accursed. We are told that it is from demons.
Galatians 1:8 But even if we or an angel from heaven should preach a gospel other than the one we preached to you, let them be under God's curse!
2 Corinthians 11:13 For such people are false apostles, deceitful workers, masquerading as apostles of Christ. 14 And no wonder, for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light. 15 It is not surprising, then, if his servants also masquerade as servants of righteousness. Their end will be what their actions deserve.
1 Timothy 4:1 The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons.
Okay. Then either are are non-Christians, non-believers, unregenrate people who love and obey Jesus - and thus are among those whom God COULD theoretically decide to do something with OR there are no persons on the planet whom God can even decide to do anything which. Those are the only two options, there are no other.
God saves those He accepts and when He accepts.
Acts 10:35 but that in every nation those who fear Him and live good lives are acceptable to Him.
Acts 15:8 God, who knows the heart, showed that he accepted them by giving the Holy Spirit to them, just as he did to us.
So, can you name at least 3 unbelieving persons on the planet whom are potential candidates for God to save (and it should be easy to name 3 among 5.5 billion) or your theology is wrong.
I don't know all people. Only God does. Are you unstable? You are unstable to ask me such a question.
Which is it?
BTW, you've not even ATTEMPTED to verify that YOU obey God or have EVER obeyed God - and yet you claim to have been saved.
I am here to talk about the written Word of God. I don't have to talk about myself personally.
Now get back to the scriptures.
Give the scripture that says what you believe and teach.
Give the scripture that says we get faith supernaturally without our wanting or knowing.
Show that God chooses to give faith to those who reject Him so that they no longer reject Him.
How can that be? You claim none can even be considered one who can be saved UNLESS they love and obey God.
I gave the scriptures that plainly say that. You just reject the truth.
Did you when you were an unbeliever? Do you even now? I gave just 5 commands of God (off the top of my head, there are literally thousands in the Bible) and asked if you have obeyed even just those 5? You haven't responded. Well, give us the names of just 3 unbelievers, 3 non-Christians who LOVE and OBEY God and according to you would thus be potential candidates for God to decide to do something with (save or anything else).
Jesus tells us what we have to do to get saved. You just have to do it and find out for yourself.