I was trying to avoid giving a list of dates, which vary by State.
Your post talked of Cuomo saying how upstate NY may open sooner. My comment was about how vague he was and it sounds like another politician making it up as he goes along while pretending it's a detailed process. Unless Cuomo is suddenly the governor of multiple states, or "upstate NY" means something else, this sounds like backpedalling.
The news is full of states and localities opening things. Even NY and NJ have taken the first steps, though they are small ones. In NJ that's reopening parks and golf courses.
Why do golf courses need to be closed at all? It sounds like the silliness here, where apparently people can be trusted to maintain a distance from each other when out walking on trails (despite it being physically impossible to give someone coming the other way six feet), yet as soon as they sit on a long bench under a pavilion that's 20 feet square they'll apparently get on top of each other, so the pavilions are closed. And perish the thought someone might need the bathroom - they are closed as well. Because, you know, people often try to find out how many people you can fit in a bathroom.
In my immediate area the local supervisors have taken the crucial step of closing the pavilions in the local park. They kept the walking trail open. Presumably the same applies - the people who keep a safe distance on the walking trail will suddenly have the urge to get as close as possible as soon as there's a roof over their head. I guess it helps them feel important.
Also some beaches (decisions there are made locally, not by the State). Non-essential businesses other than retail were never closed in NJ. The big deal for us is going to be schools, and when and how to do retail. Unlike some other states, we haven't closed schools through the end of the year. Whether they will reopen May 15 will depend upon the medical statistics at the time.
It seems your state also suffers from the idea that a politician knows better than a business owner whether the business can operate safely. Just as one size doesn't fit all across a state it's absurd to think that one size fits all across business types. "Retail" could mean Walmart on Black Friday, or it could mean the local store that has three customers in it. "Hair care" could mean a barber's shop with people sat shoulder-to-shoulder on a long bench with others standing waiting, or it could mean a private salon with one hairdresser and one customer.
NY has announced changes starting May 15.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/lisett...r-activities-open-for-residents/#4c16c4a5296d. It does say that upstate will be treated differently than NYC.
It's still full of political opinion as to which businesses are "essential". I guess it's just too bad for people employed in businesses the fuhrer doesn't think are essential - presumably they can just go without an income a while longer, right?
NJ is also open to doing things differently by region, but with the north stabilizing and rising cases in central and south, that may not happen.
I've become more than a little skeptical when governors talk about being open to doing something. It sounds like just another promise of "jam tomorrow", except when peoples' livelihoods are concerned it's more like "perhaps we'll be gracious enough to allow you to earn a living tomorrow but, you know, maybe we'll expect you to stay unemployed a while longer".