God doesn't promise salvation via infant baptism
God doesn't command us to exclude those under the age of X.
God is not limited to obligations He has made. I disagree with your very limited view of God and what God can do; I don't think God is only able to do what He has promised to do; I think nearly all God does is not a matter of LEGALISTIC MANDATES to which God is subject but rather because God IS love, God IS gracious and merciful and giving..... His heart desires to bless.
"Baptism now saves you." There is that verse (although I know how some spin it 180 degrees). I just can't find the verse that says, "Baptism is SO stressed in Scripture and is a key part of the Great Commission because it does nothing at all." Or "God can't use Baptism for nothin', He just CAN'T."
based upon a hope that God will honor the parents intent and do what God never promised he would do.
I'm a former Catholic and now a Lutheran and friend, never in my life have I heard that from a Catholic or a Lutheran.... Baptism is based on God's command and grace, it has nothing to do with honoring parents or with "intent." Catholics and Lutherans believe that God is gracious, loving, merciful... and is not rendered impotent by those under the age of X (or even that God needs our help at all). Catholics and Lutherans believe that if Jesus MEANT the Great Commission to be limited to those over the age of X, over the IQ of X, with an educational level of X, of a certain race, color, ethnicity.... um..... He probably would have said so. We're not comfortable telling God "That doesn't make sense! You can' do this! You've commanded and so very much stressed something that is a waste of time and good water!"
The worst case scenario in this presumption is that millions of Lutherans and Catholics, etc., die apart from grace because they placed their trust in their baptism and confirmation classes, yet never were given the gift of faith through grace. Such a false assurance has already happened to millions. Why continue to propagate such a lie?
The worse case scenario of a Calvinists is that millions of them die apart from grace because they kept their children from the means of grace because they couldn't find the verse that listed their child's name among the Elect and because they didn't see that God was legalistically MANDATED to give their child faith and life.
Yes..... I suppose there are loving parents who share Christ with their child yet God never gives them faith. But then I think maybe it's more likely that there are parents who do NOT share Christ with their child and yet God never gives them faith.
Now, back to the issue.....
- Josiah
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