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1. Actually, I was wrong. I had forgotten about another major shoot-up in Australia some years ago.
2. I thoroughly agree that the “solutions” I mentioned lack an element of practicality. That’s why I said, “Unfortunately, none will be implemented.” And I mentioned guns because that was a consideration in the topic.
3. With respect to bullying, a few things can be considered.
a) Many teachers (most teachers?) couldn’t care less if kids are being bullied. They probably enjoyed picking on weaker kids to some degree when they themselves were young. So who do they end up aligning with, psychologically?
b) As was pointed out, it is often the kid that finally defends himself or herself that gets into trouble.
c) Much of the time it’s even worse in fact. Bullies tend to act in concert, like a gang. So with the others around, one picks on the victim. If they are discovered fighting, both get a black mark. Next time, a different member picks on the victim. They get one black mark each. Who ends up with the most black marks and gets into big trouble? And when the gang testifies that the victim started a fight, who is going to believe the victim? And even if the truth is known, what teacher is going to side with someone who is generally weak and despised?
d) Not so long ago in my area, one kid was being repeatedly attacked. The school did nothing, even though it was well aware of the situation. Finally the kid could not take any more. He brought a knife to school in self defence. He had no intention of using it. He just showed it to keep the bullies at bay.
The police were called. The kid was treated like a criminal and hauled off. He was suspended from school. The bullies were treated as victims and offered psychological counselling.
Could anyone feign wonder if that traumatised, physically and mentally abused kid ends up doing something anti-social later in life? The answer is Yes – the rest of society; the rest of society (with the odd exception) would tut-tut and blame that person; how dare that person have such a deformed perspective of people like “us”?
And the bullies? They could well and up as pillars of that same society – the advancement to senior levels in most environments is facilitated by squashing weaker individuals on the way up.
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And now for the lighter side.
I’d crash trying to fly it.
I’d miss.
I used to think that if I kept looking long enough, I’d find something I was good at.
Truth