Do you support different types of killings being called/ punished different ways? If I got behind the wheel drunk and killed someone in most states I would not face a plain murder charge. If I got mad and killed someone in the heat of passion that is not a murder charge that is manslaughter. Even then there is voluntary and involuntary manslaughter/
Different types of killing can reasonably be given different names.
If I'm working on the roof of a building and accidentally drop a slate that lands on someone's head, I killed them.
If I have a few too many beers and drive home anyway because the roads are quiet, fail to spot a pedestrian and run them over, I killed them.
If I come home from work to find my wife in bed with another man and in the heat of the moment I shoot them, I killed them.
If I make a specific conscious decision to end the life of another person and then execute my plan knowing full well what will happen, I killed them.
The end result of all these scenarios is the same but to say that they all boil down to "I killed them" where my culpability is concerned is clearly absurd.
Where abortion is concerned it's not as if the situation is any different to the final scenario. The woman who goes to an abortion clinic is undertaking a very specific and planned course of action to terminate her pregnancy. So there really is no middle ground - if that unborn child counts as a human then the process is equivalent to murder, while if it does not then the process is equivalent to having her tonsils removed.
What the state says about the process has no bearing at all regarding what God says about the process.
ETA: Just an update to say I think I'm agreeing with you, I realised my post could read as if I were disagreeing with you.