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    Manipulation And Control [WILL YOU BE A VICTIM?]

    Evidently it doesn't need distribution badly enough for the creators to provide a transcript rather than expecting people to sit through a video.
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    Why doesn’t the gospel of Matthew mention the little drummer boy?

    A young man who, upon seeing a young woman who was exhausted from a long journey and had only just got her baby boy to sleep, figured "what this girl needs is a drum solo".
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    Why A Barn ?

    If Jesus came to serve rather than to be served it makes sense that his life as a human should begin in a setting fit for the lowliest servant rather than one fit for a king.
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    Devotionals

    I'm not familiar with Sarah Young but it's worth being careful in general with people who claim they are receiving daily messages from God and sharing them in a for-profit medium. To be clear, I believe that the gift of prophecy is real. It's just that there are an awful lot of snake oil...
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    Devotionals

    My wife used "Day by day with God" until the bookshop she used to get it from closed down and she couldn't find a local supplier. I think it's available as an online resource but not sure about physical availability outside of Europe. My wife wants a physical book rather than an online...
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    What is the origins of Christmas?

    This is a curiously modern development, to think that something landing on the same day as something else is inherently significant. Sometimes it seems we can barely doing anything without some idiot taking offense because it happened on the same day as something else in history that they want...
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    Christmas Cookie Recipe thread!

    Funny you should mention this today, my wife has just gone out to visit a friend to bake Christmas cookies. I have no idea what recipes she uses, but I do enjoy eating the results :)
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    So... What are YOU doing? - Part 8

    It was unfortunate that the web site was unavailable in the hours leading up to the event opening. It was even more unfortunate that the organisers couldn't send me a copy of the graphic on their web site that would have helped. I can figure out for myself that "drive around and look for...
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    Cross dressing pastors!

    I'm sure it can be sexual. It doesn't have to be sexual.
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    Cross dressing pastors!

    Obviously you have to do what is right for you but as a universal approach I think what you've got here is way too excessive. If someone is prone to lust they will lust after someone in a burqa. If someone is not prone to lust they will avoid lust even if someone is provocatively dressed. Yes...
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    Cross dressing pastors!

    Really? Last time I dressed in drag (many many years ago now, admittedly) it had precisely nothing to do with "sexual fantasies" or "wild imaginations" and everything to do with having a laugh. I guess you've never seen a traditional British "pantomime dame"? Nothing sexual about it at all...
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    So... What are YOU doing? - Part 8

    My wife and I had hoped to go to a Christmas market yesterday evening. Sadly the web site that showed us where to park was down when we were trying to plan and the best advice the organisers would offer over Messenger was "drive around and look for something". Needless to say I didn't feel like...
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    Mary’s Perpetual Virginity

    This could be fun. I guess if Mary saying "how can this be, for I do not know a man?" implies she was perpetually a virgin, I guess Jeremiah inadvertently uncovered the secret of eternal youth. After all, did he not say "I cannot speak for I am a youth", thereby guaranteeing a future in which he...
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    Cross dressing pastors!

    Hang on - he started out being a man in drag and now he's promoting homosexuality? Are the two inherently related in some way?
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    Cross dressing pastors!

    Yes, except looking at someone and finding them attractive isn't the same as lusting after someone. Desiring someone isn't the same as lusting after someone. Lust is a much more active desire than attraction, no? My point was that a man who desires another man is really no different, from a...
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    Cross dressing pastors!

    It's worth being a bit careful with terminology here. Homosexual desires are no more sinful than heterosexual desires - what is prohibited in the OT is homosexual activity. A man being attracted to another man isn't inherently sinful, if he chooses not to act upon that desire - that would be no...
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    People with kids.

    Kind of academic since I'm not looking for someone right now (being happily married and all that). That said once you get past a certain age it's kinda expected that someone will have kids from a previous relationship. I would expect them to be a part of the package - you either take the whole...
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    Hi!!

    Hello, and welcome!
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    So... What are YOU doing? - Part 8

    My wife went to do some Christmas shopping today so I did a few things around the house. I got a new hole drilled in the outside wall and ran a cable that will power a light on another porch, and got the gap around the cable cemented over. I got some of the wood I'll need to support the trim...
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    So... What are YOU doing? - Part 8

    Well, yes, hence my point about you not being embarrassed if a hacker did get hold of it. I'd hazard a guess that hackers are into finding things that are stored in accounts and then figure what they've found. If they were hoping to find something like a scan of a bank statement or something...
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