According to what Law? The Law of Moses or of Grace? Of religious duty or a generous heart? Which do you suppose was true of the widow who received the praise of Christ?
Oh brother, don't get offended. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. It was just a suggestion. You said you were suffering loss. I just made a suggestion because our Father made some promises associated with paying the the tithe. I have found that Our Father does not lie. And He is a promise keeper.
Malichi 3:10 Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the Lord of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.
11 And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes, and he shall not destroy the fruits of your ground; neither shall your vine cast her fruit before the time in the field, saith the Lord of hosts.
Look brother, our Father has given a challenge. He said "Prove me" which essentially says test me. He gave s permission to try Him. He said if you try Him by paying your tithe, He will open up the windows of Heaven and pour you out a blessing that there will not be room enough to receive it. It sounds to me that you could use that right about now.And, He said He will rebuke the devourer for YOUR sake. So the little penny grubbing imps that eat at your cash flow, He will rebuke. Don't you believe what He said?
You know what I don't like about the widow's mite story? We don't know how she faired after she gave her last. But since Lord Jesus noticed her sacrifice, I believed she was better than blessed. Now she did have the right attitude. And if you are going to tithe, you need to have the right attitude. First, you need to recognize that all that you do have comes from our Father. Second,He is not seeking to take anything from you, but wants to bless you. Three,Your obedience unlocks the blessing.
But, you don't HAVE to do anything.James tells us to be doers of the word and not hearers only. You can choose to be blessed, or choose to be broke. Both choices are before you.