That mistake does appear to be one of the more prevalent areas of disagreement when it comes to these discussions of ours.
So, from here on, the best thing probably would be to find a way of explaining why the notion that says God has saved people who have no interest in him whatsoever, equally with those who have come to faith and trust in Our Lord, is nothing but an insignificant aberration in the long history of the Christian church.
To entertain the idea that this matter represents a serious division in Christianity that's akin to such controversies as Faith vs Works or Real Presence or the mode of Baptism needs to be set aside for good.