Why is the world being feminized, where feelings are more important than facts, safety more than fun and political correctness more than free speech?
I'd say western society is being feminized for multiple reasons:
1) Lowering the birthrate. Women are encouraged to make a place in the world in terms of career, higher education etc. That can often mean postponing or even rejecting having children. More especially so because many women will not "marry down" - meaning they consider it demeaning to attach themselves to a male that isn't at least "on par" with them in terms of income/status etc. I find that interesting because men typically do not find it demeaning when it's the other way around.
2) Lowering the birthrate, again. Women aren't attracted generally to feminized men.
3) Lowering the general IQ of a people. This isn't to say women are generally less intelligent, but it can mean that, when it fits the definition you've provided.
4) Lowering the "fight back" will of the people. I'd say this applies to many couples in general. People that have partners have something to lose. Most men who fight in wars are young and un-married. Women tend to (generally, not as a rule) fawn over leaders, pastors, and submit to current power systems etc whereas men (generally, not as a rule) tend to be more independent minded and less prone to hero worship.