Why?
My dad always said: because I say so, so I'd say: because God says so.
If God made all the rules and set up the entire system to work this way, while being perfectly able to make it work in other ways that didn't involve suffering and sacrifice, please tell me why I must be grateful for being saved. If we can distinguish clear patterns of what psychology labels manipulative behavior in God's actions, why would I disregard these patterns?
Yes heathens can obey their conscience, but they can't become perfect like God without Jesus.
Nowhere in the Old Testament does God require anyone to be perfect. He requires them to obey certain rules to the best of their abilities. The idea of humans needing to be perfect is introduced in the New Testament. It is an absurd requirement, considering that we live in imperfect bodies, in imperfect conditions and with too little information about our existence.
That is because most don't preach this. Torben Sondergaard does and he has victory over sin, but they threw him in jail to shut him up. A guy on christian forums was addicted to porn for 30 years. He fasted, prayed. Nothing worked. Eventually he gave up and God said He was well pleased, because He knew all along that he couldn't do it and he had to say out loud Romans 6 that he died with Christ and then he was instantly set free.
Other people have tried this (Romans 6) and it didn't work for them. Let me guess: you don't know why?
It makes it clear to me, easier to understand, the snake on the pole. Satan is the snake, the satan nature, sinful nature put to death on the cross. He bore our sins in His body. Apparently sins can be in a body and when you then kill that body and He rises with a new spiritual body, the old flesh one is gone and so are the sins and the inclination to sin.
How can sins be in a body? Are sins not actions? Are they objects? Are they made of matter or energy or particles of some sort? How can sins be placed in a body that didn't commit them?
Whose inclination to sin is gone after Jesus' resurrection? We can obviously see that it's not the inclination to sin of those who believe in Him because there are numerous Christians who are still addicted to sin despite praying everyday to be delivered.
The natural mind cannot understand it. Just ask God to reveal it to you.
I have, as have thousands of other Christians who prayed everyday for years, only to not receive any revelation and end up losing their faith.
Here's a thought--there are certain essentials or fundamentals of the Christian religion that people who join a Christian discussion board are already basically familiar with. For other people who are not as well informed, some serious study on their own or, if not that, enrolling in an inquirers' class at a local church can help them catch up.
I have studied on my own. I've read The Bible and other theology books that claim to offer explanations for why Jesus had to die. I've watched dozens, if not over a hundred videos from theologians of various Christian denominations. Literally not one of them has made any sense to me because it all boils down to what Messy said, namely that "it was because God said so", which leaves the initial "why?" unanswered.
I had high hopes from Saint Athanasius' "On The Incarnation of The Word", which is usually praised by Christians from all denominations, but no, that didn't make any sense to me either.
The question of "why was it necessary for Jesus to die?" should be easy to answer. "Because God wanted it to be that way" merely tells us why it happened, not why it was necessary. If if wasn't necessary, then the fact that it happened gives me no reason to be grateful for it because, the way I see it, God chose to allow a horrible unnecessary thing to occur.
You don't understand because you don't believe. Just like 'billions of other people'.
Belief is not volitional. As someone who believes, you should know this better than anyone. Unless you are able to change your religious beliefs at will from one minute to another and become a convinced Muslim or Hindu or Buddhist through sheer willpower, you have absolutely no reason to claim that beliefs are volitional. If one is not convinced by the arguments presented to them regarding a certain piece of information, one cannot choose to believe said piece of information.
But, you lied about being a Christian.
Your definition of "Christian". According to your definition of Christian, George MacDonald, the famous Christian theologian who was also a preacher, wasn't a Christian either because he rejected the doctrine of penal substitution. He didn't believe that God punished Jesus instead of us.
You want to find fault with God, Christ, and Christianity
Wrong. I don't want to find fault to anyone. I merely want to not suffer. If, after years of prayer, God has not offered me the help I asked Him for, then it is not me who finds fault with Him. The fault is there, crystal clear.
And, by the way, there are no innocent. All are guilty. All Christians are guilty. But, all Christians have their sins paid for. All Christians will spend eternity with Christ and God in heaven. And that is what really bothers you. We are just like you, but forgiven. We are just like you, yet we believe.
You state that like it's a bad thing. I don't think being upset because of the existence of a system in which people are told to do something that is not within their willpower, without being taught how to do it, and those who are unable to do it are punished for eternity for not knowing how to do it. Such a system is absurd and awful and it is rational to despise it.