Hi. I'm now thinking that I just want someone to date and not get serious with. I'm tired of the aggravation of relationships that always happen. If we should decide to be more than dates some day well that would be okay, maybe.
Yes that's much better and far more relaxed. He had that in his profile. I am looking for friendship in the first place and we'll see if something comes out of it. That's what attracted me in his profile. He just sent a sort of wink, a standard thing to show interest. I sent a hi back. Then a real normal message if I was interested in friendship. That was all. I said yes, then he said nothing for 2 days because those sites are really difficult if you only see 3 percent. I see a new alert immediately. So I just sent something back oh yes that I liked it that he was just looking for friendship. And then just some funny conversation, nothing deep. All the others immediately wanted to know everything, why I was divorced, my goodness I told my whole past to some strangers. That's just weird. Irl you would just hang out as friends first too and talk about just normal stuff or make a joke.
Maybe you should put it in your profile.
We just go hang out tomorrow and eat something and walk in a city. I've been on 2 dates from a dating site and they were both a disaster. Most men here, christians, get touchy on a first date. Almost all women on those sites experienced that. Maybe it's just bad in Holland. When they say friendship they just want to get to know you in a normal way.
