Tigger, you and I may disagree a bit on the issue of "closed communion" (and I don't want to hijack your good thread with that discussion) but there IS a difficult-to-define difference in how liturgical/sacramental churches "feel". It's very obvious and unmistakable but hard to describe. And yes, Catholics and Lutherans strongly share this (and while I can't personally testify of this, I suspect so do Orthodox and high church Anglicans/Episcopalians). It IS very apparent that it's missing from "Evangelical" churches and mostly from Reformed churches where "church" is just an assembly hall and worship just a loose collection of songs, prayers and teaching.
Probably because of my Catholic roots, this aspect mattered a LOT to me as I searched for a new church home. Some churches and worship didn't seem like church or worship. Important to me was to find a church that was liturgical and sacramental (that SOMETHING this thread is about), where the Sacrament was seriously embraced and seen as Jesus, that was pro-life (Catholicism REALLY impacted me on that topic!). Theology was #1 but these other things mattered. I was very pleased with the LCMS (although my parish is pretty "low church" but does have weekly Communion). I miss just a bit of the choreography of Catholicism (Processions, Recessions, genuflecting, kneeling) but I adjusted quickly. The chapel is very simple (it is a very small and not rich congregation) but that's totally okay.... it's the "feel" and attitude, not the building. It's quite unmistakable. Most of us are former Catholics (about half in our parish converted from Catholicism) and that maybe gives our parish a bit of a more "Catholic" feel than it might otherwise.
My only "beef" is dress. It's NOT a big deal for me (it's actually a small deal but I do permit it to bother me just a bit). It's a beach town in California were informality of dress is extreme. Now, I'm okay with boys (I'm probably talking about elementary school but maybe through high school) wearing shorts and a T-shirt because I realize that's what they wear and probably don't even own long pants - much less a suit. I give them a "pass." But we have ADULTS who dress just as informally for worship. Last Sunday, we had an usher (he's probably in his 50's) wearing shorts and a tank top (yes, a TANK TOP). It not only was NOT flattering but it bugged me. Sorry, but we are in GOD'S HOUSE and we are in the PRESENCE OF GOD and we are WORSHIPING; GOD has brought us here to bless us. IMO, this doesn't necessary mean a suit but hey, this is important.... I don't always wear a suit but if not, I wear nice pants (probably khakis) and a collared longsleave shirt and a tie, with at least NICE and clean athletic shoes if not "hard" leather shoes. It's WORSHIP. I know - I honestly and sincerely do - that all this is cultural, it's just cultural. But I think it's attitudinal too. I know I sound like I'm 89 instead of 29, lol. And honestly, I embrace these folks and don't say anything. But it does bother me a bit. And yes, these are most likely among our "Evangelical" converts but not always.
Pax Christi
- Josiah
.