Our Catholic Deacon insisted: There are no "bad Catholics" in the Catholic Church. Just Catholics and those CLAIMING to be Catholics.
There are folks CLAIMING something that is not true (and they likely know it). One is either Catholic or not. A Catholic just swallows whole whatever the RC Denomination itself exclusively says (officially, AT LEAST) because the RC Denomination does. And parrots that. True or false, right or wrong. If they do that, they are Catholic. If they don't, they aren't (although they may falsely CLAIM otherwise). See CCC 87.
As our Catholic Deacon so stressed, in the pews we find 3 groups of people:
CATHOLICS. They acknowledge and accept that the [Roman Catholic] Church is (in official matters) the Voice of God - infallible, authoritative, unaccountable. When IT speaks (exclusively, singularly, institutionally, officially) God Himself therefore speaks. They do NOT ask "is it true?" They ask, "Do I accept?" He admitted these are very rare, not even all the religious.
CAFETERIA "Catholics" These are not Catholics at all, although they likely embrace many of the teachings of the specific, singular [Roman Catholic] church. But they accept them because THEY have concluded these things are good or right or at least acceptable, NOT because the Church says so. Thus, by definition, they are not Catholic. They TEND to accept things - until they conclude such is weak or wrong or not up to their 'par'. They regard the [Roman Catholic] Church as potentially errant (in matters of formal doctrine), they look to some authority other than the [Roman Catholic] Church, they appoint self as the arbiter. He stated that most in the pews fall into this group. They are not Catholics at all. They are extremely dangerous to the Catholic Church. And they are quite common.
Protestants HIDING in the Church. Cafeteria Catholic tend to accept until shown lacking whereas Protestants Hiding tend to not accept until shown to be of merit. This third group - rapidly growing - may actually accept MORE teachings than Cafeteria Catholics but they've accepted them because they've ruled them as true - in a deliberate way that they know defies the authority and rule of the [Roman Catholic] Church. They treat the RCC as just another denomination - the one they choose because they agree most with it. They'll leave if they change their minds on that. Our Deacon called this group, "the greatest threat to Catholicism since Gnosticism" and note that it is by far the fastest growing group in Catholicism. He complained too that much of Catholic education these days actually "feeds" this extremely dangerous heresy. He complained too that often RCIA classes aimed at Protestant converts tends to feed this.
Here is Catholicism. The exclusive, singular, individual, particular, RC Denomination speaks - and we jump. NOT because it's true or sound or right (as if we had ANY ability to determine that!) but because the RC Denomination is THE AUTHORITY, the Vicar of God, the Mouth of God, God's Teacher on Earth.... essentially Jesus on earth. I recall a Catholic teacher speaking on some Catholic distinctive doctrine (I don't recall which) and I raised the issue of truth (I EVENTUALLY learned this is.... troubling to real Catholics). The response I got was stern and very, very, very Catholic: "Josiah. If Jesus HIMSELF stood before you and told you something, would you ask Him if that was true? Of course not! So, how in the world can you even THINK to ask that of something the [Roman Catholic] Church tells you?" Ah. That teacher was Catholic.
When I realized I was not a Catholic, I finally conclude that it was a matter of honestly, integrity, character to not lie or knowingly deceive. I stopped labeling myself Catholic. To me, it was a matter of honesty.... truth..... integrity.
- Josiah
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