We treat them like any human. We extend mercy and grace by loving our neighbor. If God has redeemed them, that's just a bonus.
Yes, but How to define 'love your neighbor', though?
Would you believe Ive actually had 'christians' treat me like a piece of crap, and actually tell me I need to love my neighbor, including ones that have assaulted and vandalized us and given us all kinds of harrassment in the past?!
(Beyond Jesus first) I honestly dont know how Stephen (and others) did it, ... asking God to forgive those stoning him WHILE THEY WERE STONING HIM!
But I doubt anyone doing the stoning was also telling him, 'You need to love your neighbor, or forgive, or turn the other cheek, (except, so they could hit that one with another rock, I guess)
What ppl often seem to confuse is, Stephen wasnt being all nicey-nice ... He wasnt even really giving them the gospel of the grace of God, (well, he was, regarding Gods grace to Israel, and by extension, to them, but they REJECTED grace, so, he was giving them the truth about their stiffnecked, hard-hearted religious ways.
And he wasnt really being forgiving from himself, but at the end, after he knew he would die and asking Jesus to receive him...then he cried for God to forgive them, and he died.
Was Stephen a christian? Of course. Did he love his neighbor? Yes. Was he being loving? Yes again. Did he love those stoning him, the religious? Yes. Would he be accused of , ummm, flaming? Im thinking thats pretty much why they stoned him.
Jesus loves us so much, He died for us, and telling others that, and inviting them to believe in Him and be saved, and praying for them, is loving them. But sometimes ppl might live nearby, but they arent your neighbor, they're acting as your enemy. We've got some nasty ones around us. I tried in the past with the gospel, but from me, theyre not interested. Its obvious theyre not christians. But sharing the gospel on a christian website should be a welcome haven, especially amongst brethren, for mutual edification, for helping other potential guests/members, and for Gods glory. imo.