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I don't think anyone truly belonging to God should have titles and be called things like doctor or reverend either. Gods true people shouldn't wish to be reverenced in any way, let alone have reverend in front of their names. Which of the apostles were called reverend? They are addressed by their first names. No reverend or right reverend or most reverend. Just John, Peter, James, Paul etc, even Jesus wasn't called reverend Jesus. And we should call no man on earth our father, as Jesus said in Matthew 22. We have one father, our father in heaven.
Matthew 22
And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven.
Sure, within the confines of the church the pastor is John, not the Rev Dr John Doe. But when writing a formal letter to the pastor from outside the church it doesn't hurt to use courtesy title. Just as the person I call John might receive a letter addressed to Mr J. Doe, so they might receive a letter addressed to Rev J. Doe, Dr J. Doe, Rev Dr J. Doe, or similar. In theory if they were a retired military man they might get a letter to Rev Brig J. Doe (Retd) or similar. To me that's just about showing professional courtesy rather than kowtowing.
Within the Church of England there are a range of titles from the regular Reverend to Very Reverend, Most Reverend etc. I never figured out which title went with which position and frankly never cared enough to look it up, but I'd agree with the assertion that it creates the implication that "I'm more reverend than you are".