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Lost Our Pet....

Josiah

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I'm just "unloading" here - not looking at all for sympathy. I know most have shared this human experience.....


About ten years ago, when I was still an undergrad and living in an apartment near the university, I had a neighbor. They were a family with two small kids (probably 5 and 8 or so) and a pet rabbit. This rabbit often ran loose (AMAZING he lived AT ALL..... AMAZING he didn't run off) and was really abused. I felt really bad for that rabbit. Some of you remember Dr. Steve over at CF; he and I were friends at the time and I sought his counsel with all this at the time. Well, finally, one day, as I held that trembling very sick rabbit, I brought it back to the family and offered them $80. for the rabbit. They practically laughed out loud that I would WANT that animal, much less PAY for it! They quickly took the money .... and I had a pet rabbit (which really didn't "fit" my lifestyle at the time.....I just RESCUED it).

I learned about the House Rabbit Society and via the 'net asked their advice. They gave me the name of a vet who knew about rabbits (FEW do) and..... over $1,000 dollars later (!!!!!!!! This from a poor college student!) .... turned out he had mega problems..... I had a pet. He was my pet for nearly a decade.

I have no clue as to the mystery of the animal/human bond. Makes no sense at all. But it's real. And powerful.

This rabbit and I shared our lives. He never went outside but shared my various abodes over the years. No cage, he just had a corner where he slept and had run of the place. He was perfect with his "litter box" and didn't chew anything (blessings not always seen in rabbits). A funny guy who loved to jump and run (I called it "bunny dancing") and to play with his numerous toys. Like a puppy, he greeted me at the door when I came home. He loved his fresh vegies and could play for hours in his box of hay (which he also ate). He'd jump up in my lap and be petting for as long as I would do it. He was shy around others (often hiding) but eventually warned up.

He had picked up a problem during his days mostly outside and this proved to be a reocurring problem since it could not be cured (it would just flare up now and then) resulting each time in several hundred dollars in vet bills. But other than that, he proved to be healthy and happy, very beautiful.

Finally, everything seemed to go south. He was probably 12 years old (old for a rabbit). He suddenly developed multiple problems. Our house looked like a hospital. He was taking a lot of different meds and needed all kinds of special care. Lots of vet visits. But he was going down fast. A lot of problems. He could hardly move. He was hardly eating, loosing weight fast. Last week, as we had another visit with the vet (the same one he always had)..... the vet simply looked to us and said, "It's time to let him go." I was NOT prepared for that (SHOULD have been, but.....). He and the assist left us alone because I just cried out loud..... The vet was right, of course.

Crazy this human/animal bond..... I'm only now beginning telling family and friends....
 

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awww
That's great that you rescued him.
Years ago I had a bird. My ex rescued him from a guy who threw his shoe to him if he whistled. He was my best friend. Normally they just fall on the ground and are dead but with him it took 3 days. I put on Benny Hinn healing music for him but it didn't work. Wanted to go to the vet and then just a minute before I had to go he sat in my hand all the time and just all of a sudden he flew off to heaven with one last spread of his wings. I cried for a week. Never cried normally. We were at a restaurant, everybody looking at me with my swollen head.
Yeah it's a weird thing this animal human bond.
 

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I know you're just unloading, but thank you for sharing, Josiah.
 

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Hey Josiah,

Even though you aren't asking for sympathy, I can't help but feel sorrow for and empathize with your loss. I have lost many beloved pets over the years and know how painful it is, each and every time. I always take comfort in the fact that I did my best to give my pets the best life I could and always got much more in return from them...and it sounds like you not only rescued him from a sad existence and gave him a great home and a great life, but he enriched your life as well and that is something you can take solace in.
 

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Josiah, I really feel for you, the bond is strong, a lot stronger than many human ones. They are a part of the family and loss you are feeling is deep and real. I just pray thta in time the pain eases
 

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My condolences on your loss. It's amazing how pets influence us so much and the love we had stays with us. I still miss pets from when I was a kid!!
 
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