How many of you are dating or looking for a significant other?

[Rens]

Btw thanks everyone for the free online help! Feel much better now.

 

[Stravinsk]

christianchat.com, was there a few months, similar to cf. No idea what their usernamees were, but they were 50, 60 or so, one was even married.Lol I got mad at one that she shouldn't slander him in public, but no that wasn't good, he liked her or something. Tried to make it right again. She called him on the phone. Come on and she stalked him, but that didn't matter. They just put ladies first or something.

Ok, I thought you referred to "those women" meaning the ones I had mentioned. I'm banned from christianchat.com - for point by point refutation of some of Saul/Paul's writings.

 

[Ruth]

I am tired of the online dating sites. I give up!:smash:

 

[Rens]

Ok, I thought you referred to "those women" meaning the ones I had mentioned. I'm banned from christianchat.com - for point by point refutation of some of Saul/Paul's writings.

Lol we're banned from the same forums.

 

[MoreCoffee]

Ok, I thought you referred to "those women" meaning the ones I had mentioned. I'm banned from christianchat.com - for point by point refutation of some of Saul/Paul's writings.

I avoid CC and CF and ... because of their ruthless banning policies. As much as I dislike anti-Paul views I do not want them censored into silence.

 

[Stravinsk]

I avoid CC and CF and ... because of their ruthless banning policies. As much as I dislike anti-Paul views I do not want them censored into silence.

Interesting.

Out of all the forums I've done, CF was the first I'd ever been banned from, followed by CC. CF is also the only forum I've been a part of that had a MAJOR troll problem. I'll loosely define that for what I mean - people starting accounts to post pornography, beastiality, and the like, not just having a sock or sock accounts.

To me that says that aside from the occasional joker that just has a beef with Christianity and wants to troll - there are persons there that have a major problem with the forum itself and perhaps some of the people who run it, or have run it. I've been part of different Christian forums for gosh - 20 years or so off and on and have never seen anything like the problems at that site. Maybe times have changed and this is part of online reality now? I don't know.

The "ruthless banning policy" is also selective and biased. Some of the cliques in that place like to gang up on members and play favorites. Because the rules are so tight - it's easy to do. So you see some individuals posting things that are against one of their rules (like saying "omg" or "damn" out of a biblical context) - and nothing is done. But for others - the letter of their forum law is strictly enforced. As mentioned earlier in this thread, I got in trouble with one Admin for posting some pics of very fat (fully clothed) fat ladies. She even told me in MSC I couldn't do it. Not part of the rules - just not allowed in her "safe space" I guess. Turns out she has a weight problem. Go figure.

Edit: CF was the first forum I was banned from among forums with a Christian theme. I was once banned from a music related site for a dispute on a non-musical topic that got heated between me and a few other members.

 

[psalms 91]

Exactly why I dont recommend that site to anyone

 

[Rens]

Just apped him in the middle of the night that it's nothing. Can't have a relationship cry all day can't do anything. He's way too normal and has a normal ex who does everything awesome raises the kids herself. No way. Not gonna work. He's clean too or tidy whatever. No way. Asking for trouble. Just said I need constant reaffirmatiom. Just not apping 2 days? I get muts. No I'm not like those normal independant stromg women. Not at all and positive confessions bye triex that for years. Heard for years that I was nuts. well if I wasnt he ruinex it for the rest. So be it.

 

[Rens]

Funny, got a response this morning: hmm peculiar. Maybe be a bit less negative.
Yeah I thought I'd throw in a fun tone.
He said I'm not crazy plus he didn't run away screaming. He can stay. Passed all my weirdo tests.

 

[Rens]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Lo5eswhvV7E

 

[Rens]

Funny guy. Sent me this:

 

[Stravinsk]

Leo? Really? My. She was very negative about all those guys there. They were bothering her or something and guys in general. Think she has problems herself. That was on christian chat too. Real nice guy, christian, but sometimes he would say some flirty stuff for fun. I had a crush on him. Then those women complained about him, he stalked them and everything. Insane. He did nothing. They just banned him. They didn't even give me his email adress. No he will stalk you too. Like he was a creep. He came back as a sock and we emailed a few times. Most decent guy I ever met. Unbelievable and they just listen to those women. Get the idea it's a culture in America to call everyone who says hi or flirts a creep. He was just joking. He'd tell a 35 year old he liked her. That was just a joke. My goodness how they respond. So I said: oh I'll date you lol. He didn't even want to move to Holland for me. We have such beautiful windmills. Oh well. I made a thread about it and one woman helped me too. Lol got a ban too.

Just responding to the bold. Yes, the same. She's got to be CF Single's biggest whiner and drama queen. MehGuy was right when he summarized :

"Posting subtle jabs at the men here and constantly creating a dialog about her looks and she didn't want the attention? Sure.." in a response to someone who said she "draws controversy but hates attention" Thread: "Need to make an announcement" posted in December, 2015

Whatever - that's fine - she's a looker, and she uses it. No problem with that.

About her constant dramas with men - well I don't doubt she probably has had a few, and from that forum as well. Not that I know of any specifics though - so I can't say.

But here's what I do know. She sent me a photo with very private data embedded in it - data that relates to her exact location when it was taken. I was operating Calvinator at the time (having been banned once again for who knows what - maybe I said "omg" or suggested someone see a psychologist over a psychiatrist? (Yes, I received an early infraction for that horror of a post)) - and when I discovered that - I pm'd her back letting her know about that data. I offered to help her remove it from that photo and any others she uploaded, when I learned how (I didn't know at the time). She asked if I had looked up the location. I admitted I did - it was a simple button press on my program. Then she assumed I used the program for nefarious reasons (even though I had already told her I used it to analyze photos) and went off to join the "I'm persecuted" club along with the Armenian and LT. Together - they went on and on about how someone had "stalked and harrassed them" - without naming me on those websites - but it all became very apparent when the most desperate and easily duped males started pointing fingers at me on public message boards, including CF.

So I have very little respect for her, and very little respect for either the Armenian or her sidekick, LT. An apology would have been nice from any of them. At this point - I would only accept a public one. I've had people apologize in private before, only to tell a completely different story in public. It makes me sick that the kind of people who do this also talk as if they are authorities on God and Christ.

 

[Rens]

Just responding to the bold. Yes, the same. She's got to be CF Single's biggest whiner and drama queen. MehGuy was right when he summarized :

"Posting subtle jabs at the men here and constantly creating a dialog about her looks and she didn't want the attention? Sure.." in a response to someone who said she "draws controversy but hates attention" Thread: "Need to make an announcement" posted in December, 2015

Whatever - that's fine - she's a looker, and she uses it. No problem with that.

About her constant dramas with men - well I don't doubt she probably has had a few, and from that forum as well. Not that I know of any specifics though - so I can't say.

But here's what I do know. She sent me a photo with very private data embedded in it - data that relates to her exact location when it was taken. I was operating Calvinator at the time (having been banned once again for who knows what - maybe I said "omg" or suggested someone see a psychologist over a psychiatrist? (Yes, I received an early infraction for that horror of a post)) - and when I discovered that - I pm'd her back letting her know about that data. I offered to help her remove it from that photo and any others she uploaded, when I learned how (I didn't know at the time). She asked if I had looked up the location. I admitted I did - it was a simple button press on my program. Then she assumed I used the program for nefarious reasons (even though I had already told her I used it to analyze photos) and went off to join the "I'm persecuted" club along with the Armenian and LT. Together - they went on and on about how someone had "stalked and harrassed them" - without naming me on those websites - but it all became very apparent when the most desperate and easily duped males started pointing fingers at me on public message boards, including CF.

So I have very little respect for her, and very little respect for either the Armenian or her sidekick, LT. An apology would have been nice from any of them. At this point - I would only accept a public one. I've had people apologize in private before, only to tell a completely different story in public. It makes me sick that the kind of people who do this also talk as if they are authorities on God and Christ.

Oh my. All that extreme fuzz over something that stupid. Yes they should make a public apology. A pity I can't post there anymore, although I now learned how you can do it from that guy from cc who kept coming back as a sock.

 

[Rens]

nm

 

[Rens]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oL9_I3fMgwg

 

[Rens]

If there's one thing I cannot stand it's being ignored. So I sent him a SUP lolcat. No response. Then he got a half page explanation and I feel better, that's what it's all about in this life LOL.

 

[MoreCoffee]

If there's one thing I cannot stand it's being ignored. So I sent him a SUP lolcat. No response. Then he got a half page explanation and I feel better, that's what it's all about in this life LOL.

Threaten with ceilingcat!

 

[Rens]

Threaten with ceilingcat!

hahahahahahaha

 

[Rens]

 

[MoreCoffee]

How terrifying! touched by Ceilingcat!