For the limited atonement believers, do you only forgive some people? How do you know who you're supposed to forgive since only God knows the heart of men? How do you see this verse:
Matthew 6:14
For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
And this verse?
Acts 7:59-60
While they were stoning him, Stephen prayed, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.” 60 Then he fell on his knees and cried out, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.”
That verse doesn't say Lord you didn't die for them...it says do not hold this sin against them. How do you reconcile such a verse?
Then there's this:
Matthew 18:21-22
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times? “Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.”
What I'm getting at is that scripture tells us to love our neighbors...it doesn't say to only love some. It doesn't say to only forgive Christians. So why would you only believe that God doesn't love the world?
Jesus prayed at the cross: Father forgive them, for they know not what they do, but in Psalm 109 He's not too kind about Jude.
When he is judged, let him be found guilty,
And let his prayer become sin.
8 Let his days be few,
And let another take his office.
John 12:39-40 39 Therefore they could not believe, because Isaiah said again:
40 “He has blinded their eyes and hardened their hearts,
Lest they should see with
their eyes,
Lest they should understand with
their hearts and turn,
So that I should heal them.”
I think that's for when they go too far and sin against the Spirit. Jesus could not have carried those sins, I think, cause they are unforgivable.
But practically, in every day life, just forgive everyone, cause the apostles may have known who sinned against the Spirit, but I don't. Paul for example, when he was killing the saints, they would shy away from him, but he could be saved. He did it in ignorance.