Parents need to be parents.
Too often, parents forfeit their God-given responsibilities and push them off on anyone who will accept it. Schools will.... with the help of Planned Parenthood, the LGBTQ community, and liberals. The SAD thing, most parents are thankful - one less parent thing they need to do.
IF a parent MUST send their kid to a secular, government run school (and my advise: DON'T if you have any other option), then OPT OUT of everything you can. Even in the People's Republic of California, parents can opt out of "family life education" (they just may not be told that). And pretty much anything else.
My wife is a retired public school teacher. She taught second and third grades during her years. When it came to the HORRIBLE, Planned Parenthood designed and written materials forced on all public schools by the state, first SHE spoke to each parent and strongly encouraged them to opt out. For those who did not, she HIGHLY edited the curriculum - getting the whole thing done in a few minutes, tossing the rest in the trash can. By the way, they were also forced by the State to have a whole curriculum about the Gay Flag. She just didn't do it, she lead the class in a study of the American flag. In both cases, the principal was aware and perfectly okay with it - being a strong Catholic; he just said "Let's pretend we didn't have this conversation."
My wife's biggest complaint about public education, however, was not the HORRIBLE curriculum pushed on local schools by the radical left.... it was parents who gladly went along with it, anything to not be a parent and have someone else do it for them.
THAT SAID, I wish traditional moralist did more to help parents be parents here.... some have materials (the LCMS' Concordia Publishing House has a curriculum but it's not great). For parents that need help, the church especially should have GREAT materials available. If planned parenthood can create materials to push their morality, then the church should do at least the same. Difference: the church doesn't need to hide the content from parents and do it behind their back, the church should INVOLVE parents, support THEM being parents. IMO, too often the church is complaining (justly) but doing little about it.
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