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Make sure to get a home inspection! Have it as a clause that you can back out if the inspection brings up things that would cause issues.
Make sure to do your homework on the various types of loans out there.
Don't buy more than you can handle and don't let yourself go paycheck to paycheck just to have that forever home. Because things could happen in your life where you lose that forever home when you can't make some mortgage payments.
Always have an emergency fund set aside. You never know when that furnace will go out in the dead of winter.
Look at the crime maps for the area. You want to know if it's safe.
Look at the maps for child sex offenders in the area.
Check out the school ratings. Even if you don't have children, it affects your home value.
Pay attention to property tax as well as the school tax that's based on your property. You could pay cheaper taxes in another county or even across a river.
What are some tips you would give somebody looking to buy a house?
It's understandable that you gave up, given all that you told us. However, there may be another way of looking at it IMHO.My beloved and I bought a traditional, single-family house (1600 square feet) on a TINY lot (not a condo) in a planned community. We got a deal because THEN it was not a sellers' market and the house (while less than 20 years old) was a bit of a fixer-upper.
We've fixed it up (it's among the nicest in the community now)... and the house value has gone up at least $250,000 from when we bought it almost 5 years ago - probably more. And my income has gone up significantly too. So, before the Pandemic, we went house shopping. BUT we couldn't buy anything. We found homes we liked... offered FULL PRICE or even up to 10% OVER the asking price... and we're out bid every time. Some of the homes we inquired about - on the market one day - were already sold, for way over the asking price. Buyers are waving any inspections... even paying the seller's closing costs and all the realtor fees. We put offers on 6-7 homes and our offer either came in after the house sold or while at or over asking price, was well under offers they'd already received. We gave up.
It's understandable that you gave up, given all that you told us. However, there may be another way of looking at it IMHO.
You are going to sell your present home, I assume. If so, it will probably be in the same situation with over-bidding and the waiving of inspections, etc. in order that the potential buyer can edge out other bidders. But this situation is changing fast. Just as the boom in the sales of houses you might want to move to is waning, it is also changing for your present house. So, is it to your benefit to wait, after all, until the market is much weaker all round?