[MENTION=387]Andrew[/MENTION]
Josiah said:
100%. WOW! Dogma doesn't get more dogmatic than that!!!!
So, where does Scripture or Tradition or History state that Mary had other children. 100%.
I can see the references to SILENCE.... I can see you speculating at every venture..... but how does that prove your dogmatic statement.... 100%?
You seem to be rebuking Arsenios for referencing universal, ancient, historic Tradition - and that's fine (see post # 24). But it seems to ME, you aren't referencing ANYTHING. No Scripture says a THING about Mary having other children - one way or the other - and I think we all know that. Tradition says she did not. History shows NO ONE else claimed to be a child of Mary and NO ONE else was thought to be a child of Mary. You may speculate all you like but that's what it is. Speculation that counters Tradition.
BTW, the earliest we have on this indicates that the stated siblings are children of JOSEPH, and there is NOTHING in the Bible that remotely states otherwise (although nothing specifically states that either, as all admit). These were already adults when Jesus came along (past 13 anyway). You SPECULATE that they were not with Mary and Joseph on their trip to Jerusalem when Jesus was 12, but the Bible nowhere so states (they may simply have had no role in the situation the Bible relates). You SPECULATE that these children did not travel to Bethlehem with Mary and Joseph because the Bible does SPECIFICALLY say they did but does that prove they did not? And they could have registered separately. Friend: is it SOUND to rebuke Arsenios for upholding ancient, ecumenical Tradition because it's "speculating" by rejecting Tradition and then speculating? Is it SOUND to say "It doesn't matter" but "it's 100% CERTAIN - a matter of highest importance and certainty - that Mary had other kids? If it doesn't matter, why insist it's 100 certain (dogma)? If speculation is to be rejected.... if Tradition is to be rejected.... if what matters is what the Bible says and does not say... then where is the confirmation that it is 100% certain Mary had other kids?
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Okay I say
100% she did and
you say 100% she didn't.
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Where did I state She had no other children, 100% certain or even as pure personal speculation? Brother, where did I say what you claim I said?
Does truth matter? Especially dividing DOGMA where something is stated as
100% factual, certain? When thus others are condemned 100%?
IF Arsenios must substantiate his view (especially to the level claimed) does that rubric also apply to those who disagree with him?
IF speculation is wrong for those who hold She had no other children, is it equally wrong for those who hold She did (especially as "100% certain", as Dogma)?
IF Arsenios is wrong because (it is opinoned) he is stating something the Bible doesn't actually say, is it also wrong for others to say (as "100% certain) what the Bible doesn't actually say?
Get my point? Do you get my point?
Andrew said:
It's biblically inconclusive and should have never become a dogma
Which REALLY leaves me scratching my head, lol.
Because you made it dogma - to the very highest level POSSIBLE - "100% certain." You stated a position - the very strongest way possible, to the highest level possible, repudiating Arsenios in the strongest way possible, dividing things to the maximum degree possible.
BTW, there is no dogma in ANY denomination of "Mary Had No Other Children" OR "Mary Had Other Children." NO denomination has a dogmatic stance on this issue. You declared such a dogma but no denomination has. It is a ramification of the "Perpetual Virginity of Mary" but the point of that dogma is not that Mary had no other children but that She remained "pure" in this sense.
Andrew said:
On that note I do take back my 100% but I do lean more towards Mary and Joseph being married and having children in their state of wedlock as all Christians are allowed to do.
AHHHHH.....
What we state matters. And OFTEN, a lot of division, a lot of misunderstanding, a lot offensive, a lot of debate, pages of wasted posts is eliminated when we say what we mean and mean what we say.
Would you agree?
Very often, I'm ONLY calling for a "level playing field"..... honesty..... keeping the discussion CLEAN. I appreciate your repentance and honesty; many of us having been TRYING (oh, soooo hard!) for years to move MennoSota in that direction. Which is what some AGAIN were trying to do here.
It is my observation that SO often, discussions of this nature are not productive (often COUNTER-productive) in part because people don't state what they mean or mean what they state... and hold to "double standards," "uneven playing fields" and frankly, employ a lot of hypocrisy (whether intentionally or not), at times even repudiating the very rubric they employ. As brothers in Christ.... as those who CARE about truth and unity.... who think our witness matters..... we can HELP each other better discuss what divides us? Not because anyone is perfect but because we are called to help EACH OTHER? Luther said, "Humility is the foundation of all sound theology." Maybe it is of all productive discussion, too? Well, important anyway?
Do you think there's any validity in that?
Thank you.
Blessings
- Josiah
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