1. As a Lutheran, I believe that there is mystery in soteriology (which is why Lutherans tend to stay out of the Arminian/TULIPian fights, lol). The exact interplay of faith and grace, the exact dynamics in HOW God saves us is simply not defined in Scripture - and thus we leave it as mystery. The bottom line is this: GOD is the Savior, not us. And we are justified by God's grace in Christ through our faith, which is the gift of God. THAT we affirm with passion! Lutherans are passionately monergists. BTW, Lutherans tend to define "grace" here in a typically Protestant rather than Catholic maner, as God's undeserved, unmerited love and mercy, as getting what we don't deserve or earn; we don't define it as a "juice" God imputes in us that makes us able to do what we would not otherwise.
2. I accept the concept of the predestination of believers. Lutherans are more apt to call this "the doctrine of election" rather than predestination, but when applied to believers I don't think there's any difference. But again, Lutherans embrace mystery here. We hope to embrace what Scripture says without forcing OUR philosophies or theories or understandings on God and His Scripture. Lutherans are more comfortable with mystery and less comfortable with human logic and philosophy than many of our western brothers and sisters in Christ.
3. Lutherans understand "predestination" (election) as GOSPEL. For Lutherans, whether something is Law or Gospel is key to understanding it, and we see this as Gospel. It is meant to comfort and assure BELIEVERS; it is not meant to be a 'terror of the conscience.' Let me use this illustration (however flawed). I was "born" by C-section because I had a sever (and potentially fatal) heart problem that needed immediate surgery; for sometime after my birth (and before my second surgery), I was quite limited in size and activities (I'm amazingly healthy, active and handsome today, lol). Anyway, I SO VIVIDLY recall that when I was a little boy, I LOVED when my mother would tell me about before I was born. Even after she learned about my heart issue. She told me how very much she loved me and how she prayed constantly for me. She told me how Dad traded in his beloved sports car for a minivan, and gave up his office at home so it could be converted into a nursery for me (remember - the changes of me living were pretty poor). They told me that the day of my birth and first surgery, my bother and sister (my sis is 7 years older than me, my bro is 4 years older) both prayed outloud for me (I'd remember that when I had a fight with them!). And over 50 people from the church were at the hospital (some distance away since I was born at a children's teaching hospital affiliated with a university). She stressed to me how much I was loved EVEN BEFORE I WAS BORN. How much Mom and Dad wanted me, how much they did for me, the sacrifices they made for me. And they didn't know I would be such a smart, great, incredably handsome guy! They loved me BEFORE I did ANYTHING. Now, here's the meaning of that for me: I felt comforted, assured. I KNEW they loved me. They'd get mad at me. Dad would sometimes discipline me pretty severly, I had some ( now VERY embarrassing) fights with my Mom. BUT I knew they loved me - unconditionally, not because of who I am or am not, but because they have this incredible ability to love. And nothing would change that, nothing would separate me from that. And they would sacrifice for me - and they did (and still do!). I'd ask my Mom to tell me about before I was born - and she'd go over all that. Again and again. I think I was still asking her about that when I was 10. It's good to know.
4. If one believes, it's WHOLLY because of God who ALONE gets ALL the glory and thanks and credit. If they don't believe, that's WHOLLY their own fault and they alone get the blame. No one is in hell because God "gets off" on sending people to burn eternally or because God goofed. And no one is in heaven because they did something to bring that about. IF you are heaven bound - that's ALL God, ALL Gospel. IF you are hell bound, that's ALL law and all the one's fault.
5. The doctrine of election not only places all our confidence, hope, comfort and courage in GOD but it also takes the pride and burden off of us. We are not the Savior, God is. The doctrine of election builds humility, as well as hope and comfort. The Calvinist' idea of DOUBLE Predestination, the Dogma of Damnation is a Greek idea that I think is unbiblical and a terror to the conscience.
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