While ministry in church is great we are seeing more and more churchs dying because of the wall us in mindset, the church is not a cruise ship but a lifeboat that everyone in their own way is called to minister. If the churchs dont move out of their ivory towers and meet people where they are and show them Jesus in a tangible way then the future of the church is grim indeed
There does seem to be a tendency to think a few things that are all wrong. People think church is for an hour or two on a Sunday and the other 166-167 hours of the week are theirs, and then wonder why the world isn't interested in their message. Then people think that the minister is the one who has to lead everything and their job is to show up and do what the minister says, and then wonder why the minister gets burned out. People think that church refers to a building with seats in it rather than the body of Christ, and end up thinking that the God who is mighty to save inside their four walls somehow becomes impotent the minute someone steps over the threshold and leaves (I'm often staggered at the way people talk of "getting people into church" as if their physical presence in an old building was of absolute importance, and as if the shameless bait-and-switch tactic was likely to do anything other than backfire).
There also seem to be at least some churches out there where people seem to be endlessly in a "needy" state. It's good when a church can bear the burdens of its weaker members and where those going through tough times can lean for support on those who are stronger. But the idea of that has to be that sooner or later those who need support come through their trouble and are then the strong one for someone else who is in need. When people describe an entire church as "needy" it does make me wonder what they are missing.