Snerfle, we are creatures of habit. Legalism is a habit that humans are naturally drawn toward. God knows this. It is why God’s grace is so amazing. In all your frustration here, take a deep breath and let God's grace amaze you.
There is nothing anyone can say or do that will change a person, except by ordination of God. Let God do what He will do and let us point to God's means of reconciliation.
Peace and...never cheer for Notre Dame. Always remember...never cheer for Notre Dame.
I appreciate the reply MennSota.
One thing I've gotta stress though is IM NOT FRUSTRATED! IM NOT UNCALM AND IRRATIONAL, OR IN NEED OF CALMING BEFORE BEING ABLE TO CONVERSE, AS SOME ACCUSERS SO SWEETLY PUT IT EARLIER!
IM NOT IM NOT IM NOT!!!!!!!!!
AAAAAAAHHHHHHGGGGGGHHHHH!!!!!
Okay, now that I've played along a bit ...
In ALL SERIOUSNESS, I am quite calm and actually laughing, meaning with joy, inside, God is SOOO good, all the time, and my demeanor is quite often read ALLL wrong on this site, its easy to misunderstand some things in writing.
But there is no question that sometimes ppl just have no interest in truth or brotherly love, and simply get their Socks off trying to instigate and irk others.
Sometimes I give em what they want, and sometimes I give em a taste of their own crap right back, only they cant take it, and then starts the running away, or the third-grade ignoring mentality, or the 'Im telling mommy' reaction.
See, the thing is, alot of ppl think being a christian means pretending your a nice little granny from sweet street (and thats just the guys, lol) (ja, until they decide they dont like you, then theyre cut throat and backstabbing, again, no love and SURELY no grace)
But thats not christianity...thats really no different than the games the world plays.
No, when you get to a point where, for example, youve said a dozen times, you have RC family and friends, you love them, you know at least one is saved, and you dont bash RCathOLICS at all, but hate some of their doctrines and practices, just like Jesus does, and they turn right around and say 'stop bashing RCatholics', you know all theyre really doing is saying 'Bleep you, we're gonna ignore you and make false accusations anyway', ...
when they slice and dice your posts, re-quote portions to alter your meaning and manipulate what other ppl think about you, and even do so in a team effort, so that they can force you off point and into having to defend yourSELF, all because they get their jollies out of messing with some ppl and not for any regard for truth or brotherly love, in other words, if theyre gonna thumb their nose and say 'bleep you' only without using the words so they can get away with it, well, Im not some liberal leftist california or australian pretend-sweet-granny who resonds with playing patty-cakes with the devil.
After enough needling and fiery darts, and underhanded 'bleep yous', they get one back...Straight back, not covertly.
Only then the accusations of 'not being a nice christian' come out, in a twisted way. I think the pyshology ppl have a name for that, idk.
But Im not being meanspirited or wishing bad on anybody... I come from a place where ppl can hash it out, be done with it, and then go enjoy one TOGETHER.
If others cant get past their hatred to do that, thats on them.
We can be angry over the way someone treats us or others, or even what theyre doing to themself, (perhaps without even realizing it), without being irrational or wrathful.
Jesus said to some ppl they were a den of snakes and their father was the devil.
Pretty harsh, some might say, but He still loved them .... He didnt hate them and wasnt irrational, though Im sure He was accused of both.
No, it's fine, its a fine day, and Im okay ... A little saddened? Maybe. A little angry? Maybe, but no big deal. Sometimes its hard to figure why some things happen the way they do, but there's usually some areas of growth needed and I hope for that in my own life.
But all in all Im of pretty good cheer, way moreso than I deserve to be, and Im rejoicing in God my Saviour .... Jesus is sooo good and so worthy, I just wish there was more rejoicing in a collective sense here on this site, less backbiting and condemnation.
But again, I dont blame the ppl so much as I do some of the denominationalism that breeds it, and I hold the RC denom as responsible as any of them.
Works righteousness doctrine does not like grace, and so there' a natural sandpaper effect' with some folks as a result, and it clouds the idea that we're SUPPOSED to be on the same page.
Am praying for more grace, ... Gods love and grace abounds in Jesus, and He will work things together for the good.
Meanwhile, old habits ARE hard to break, including for my 'quite elderly but doing ok RC yet SAVED Notre Dame fan' ... Dad, lol.
How can I root against HIM, brother?... He's not only my Dad, but my brother in Christ, my friend, and the greatest guy in the world, and I love him very much. On some levels he's been my best or only friend, especially of late, and still some ppl resent that or me for it, and that hurts in ways I cant even explain, long story, ...this last year has been hard in some ways, and should the Lord tarry, its harder still seeing things 'wind down' if you know what I mean, and I dont really have much support ... especially in a 'spiritual, brother or sister, moral support' kind of sense.
But now I'll probably be accused of whining and the violins will start coming out, so lol, Ive said too much already and I apologize for 'derailing' again.
(What's all this fuss about 'Violins' on television? Why would anyone be against that?)
Ohhhh.......
(Nevermind)
Peace. :spinningsmilie: