The issue really is whether God makes the Sovereign choice in saving people or whether humans by their free-will make the choice and then God gives the big thumbs up.
Well, I can understand why those who believe in "free will" as you put it would reject infant baptism since they'd likely (and correctly IMO) conclude that a unregenerate, spiritually dead baby who doesn't believe in God would choose God. Of course, the same would be true for one of any age.
But I fail to see what that has to do with your rejection of applying the Great Commission to those under the age of X because you don't hold to "free will" you are a monergist who believes that God does it. For you, the issue really is whether God is incapable of blessing and giving His gifts to those under the age of X, whether God is impotent to do so for those under this mystical age of X. This is why MoreCoffee kept reminding you of John the Baptist still in his mother's womb, why he kept reminding you of the soverignty of God. I too gave up trying to understand why a Monergist (especially one as bold as you are - quite admirably) must hold to God's impotence in this regard.
I think, in part, you keep holding to a strawman - that the Means of Grace MUST ALWAYS be effective or else again, God is impotent. Strange, because no one has claimed they are. MC, I admit, APPEARS to be saying that at times but you aren't reading all he's saying (or all I'm saying). This is why I tried - oh so very, very many times, over and over - to convey to you that you're arguing against a point no one holds. And again, it seems YOU are the one denying the soverignty of God: The Great Commission is from God to us, not the other way around. As I've quoted to you many times, "My word does not return to be void but accomplishes all that I desire." The "I" there refers to God - not the evangelist and not the receipient. But just because His desire may or may not be to save doesn't mean it's forbidden to do as He commands. It MAY be that a baby baptized doesn't end up in heaven and MAY be isn't among the Elect. But then the same is true for ANY unbeliever of ANY age - and it equally goes for the other part, teaching. I don't think God is MANDATED by our actions to act against His will - I just don't see God as so small. But that doesn't mean we should go against His mandate to us. We are to LOVE our neighbor - whether he is the Elect or not, whether he ends up in heaven or not, but my reflecting and applying God's love may not return to Him void but may accomplish all that He desires. I honestly think MoreCoffee has been arguing the "soverignty of God" point FAR more than you..... has been arguing against free will far more than you. THAT, your seeming to position yourself so contrary to monergism - is what has puzzled me right from the start. I'd never have expected it from you. I'm coming at this whole issue as an uber-monergist, and finding MoreCoffee a lot closer to that than you.
No act of humans, whether good or bad, can change the will of God.
And neither I nor MoreCoffee or Lamm Or Tigger or many others have ever disagreed with that. Of course, that goes for the Will of God for us as Christians too, including "Go.... baptize.... teach....."
Loving, caring, serving, going, reaching out, baptizing, teaching...... NOTHING changes the will of God. But it's also not true that God generally gives His gifts and blessings in a complete vacuum - void of people or words or voices or actions. God can (of course) just ZAP His gifts and blessings directly to people (again, John the Baptist in his mother's womb) but that seems very atypical. God typically uses means. Calvin called these "The Means of Grace." It wasn't a new idea - Orthodox and Catholic and Lutheran Christians had been speaking of them before Calvin, he simply AGREED with them. God typically delivers His gifts via means. It doesn't mean they aren't His gifts. If the mailman delivers a birthday present from me, did I not give you the gift? If a carpenter uses a hammer to build a house, it is not the carpenter who built the house? God is a big God, my friend. MC and I and others are giving GOD the credit for His will being done, not stumbling over the mailbox or the hammer as you seem to be doing, as if we can't say the carpenter build the house if he uses a hammer, I can't be the giver of your present if it comes via the US mail.
But that water baptism does nothing to cause God to save someone
Well, at least you've admitted you don't read anything but bullet points (and only two of those, at most). Because you would not keep making this absurd point if you had been reading even 10% of what's been written to you.
And friend, it seems to me YOU are the one undermining the Soverignty of God, undermining Monergism.... making God too small to accomplish His will. You've been asked by others: WHAT, pray tell, is it about a loving Christian parent reaching out to their child..... loving them in Christ...... permitting them to be baptized.... teaching them about Jesus (even if PERHAPS they aren't Elect).... WHAT, please tell us, WHAT about that renders God impotent to give His gifts and blessings to that child... to accomplish His will for that child? What is SO bad about doing the Great Commission that will keep God from His will? WHAT is it about those under the age of X that makes God impotent? YES, YES, YES, YES, a thousand times YES - there is no MANDATE that God MUST give justification to all people whom we have loved, whom we've reached out to, whom we've sung Sunday School songs to, whom we
be brought to Sunday School and Sunday worship, whom we've allowed to be baptize that FORCES God to act contrary to His will, His sovernignty, His wisdom. Friend, no one has said otherwise. I have said that to you over and over and over and over - but yes, you admit you don't read most of what's posted to you. But that doesn't make His will FOR US CHRISTIANS irrelevant. It doesn't make it forbidden for loving Christian parents to reach out and minister to their children, to apply the Great Commission to those they love. Again, CALVINIST, MONERGIST missionaries WENT to Hawaii..... LOVED them...... preached ALL of them (Elect and non-elect)... baptized all their babies..... BECAUSE they held to monergism, BECAUSE God can do His will.... BECAUSE they love and the obey the will of God. They were uber Calvinists, uber Monergists. It's you insisting they were wrong. I find YOU to be the one out of synch with Monergism and Calvinism. And yes, Scripture.
. You don't have that kind of power to force your will on the God of Creation.
Therefore, just as going to the temple and circumcising a child and/or offering sacrifices never removed the sins of the participant, so water baptism does nothing to remove the sins of the participant. Water baptism is thus no more than a ceremonial obedience to God's command.
Whether you have the capability to accept what I tell you is irrelevant to me. God will one day open your eyes so you can read the Bible without adding or subtracting your own wishes into the text. It took me many years to read without my childhood bias pushing me to ignore what God actually was saying. It may take you years to get to the same point as well. I don't begrudge anyone as they travel the path as long as the covenant with God to be honest with His word.
Yeah, I remember your mandate: I'm permitted only BRIEF bullet points, and only 2 of those.