The problem may lie in the apparent contradiction between what Jesus taught, and the teachings of Paul as proclaimed by the Evangelical (especially) churches.
1. Was Jesus teaching the Gospel? If so, what was it? The Gospel of the kingdom of God that the Jews knew would be set up on Earth.
2. What is the Gospel that Paul was teaching (according to the Evangelicals)? Accept Jesus Christ as your own personal Saviour, and go to Heaven. Be among those who don't so accept him for whatever reason (rejection, never hearing about him), and go to eternal torment in Hell.
You can see where the problem lies.
I have seen this expressed in other forums, and the decision made to follow Jesus' words and ignore Paul's.
Some of those people weren't even aware that the original meanings of many of the words and expressions used by Jesus and the apostles, had been deliberately mistranslated or improperly explained to bolster certain doctrines.
However, if you look closely at the words of Jesus and Paul (and Peter, etc.), you will find that there are parallel thoughts of a resurrection to an earthly existence (as originally revealed by God to Israel in the Old Testament) as well as a resurrection to a heavenly existence, expressed by those sources.
Peter stated explicitly in Acts 3:21 that all things will be restored. To what? To the way they were before the Fall, an Edenic existence on Earth – based on and confirming Old Testament prophecies concerning that very thing. (See visionary's Post #6 in the "ever lives to make intercession"?? thread,)
Other references speak of heavenly things. Are the two ideas incompatible?
Obviously not, because they are spoken of in parallel. Therefore, they must refer to different groups of people. The Scriptures speak of two Resurrections. Do they not? (Bear in mind that there is some doubt about the validity of Revelation 20:5a.)
So the gospels and Paul's writings can be reconciled quite easily with the appropriate perspective, and without the need to jump through hoops explaining away passages like Matthew 25:31-46 and Revelation 20:12,13.
God's Word is wonderful.
Maybe we should look at it a bit more closely, and without the “aid” of predetermined doctrinal filters.
Maybe?