At the wedding in Cana, he replied with a statement many may think is condescending. But he then listened to His Mother, what are your thoughts on that?
Is it the word "Woman" that people find condescending? Or was it the fact that He didn't straight away do her bidding?
We see similarities in other parts of scripture where Jesus doesn't immediately do what is asked of Him and once there is a sign of faith shown by the person requesting, He goes ahead and follows through on the request.
To me it is like when Jesus asks Who do you say I am? And the response was You are the Messiah! I see it that way because we don't demand things from God but if it comes from faith and is in line with God's will, He will grant the request.
Back to Cana, Mary went to Jesus expecting Him to just do what needed to be done. His response coaxes the sign of faith when she tells the servants to Do whatever He tells you. In that she is proclaiming that HE is the Messiah and He can do great things.