I participate in forums like this because....
1. I want to LEARN. I'm a self-confessed theology junkie and I'm eager to learn other perspectives. I consider myself a theology seeker and appreciate when posters teach me something in theology I didn't know or a new "spin" on things.
2. I want to pursue TRUTH. I'm a theology "seeker" and I like joining with others who have the humility to realize they aren't infallible and they aren't The Truth... but who want to find it. I can "tolerate" know-it-alls (they can teach - at least THEIR perspective) but I appreciate those who WANT to know more.
3. I desire to gain/grow in true doctrinal UNITY - a unity of agreement in what we embrace as Dogma (necessary, binding doctrine). I think it's good to agree.... and I think many of our disagreements are more a matter of articulation than true disagreement. I LONG AGO gave up on any formal, institutional agreement (too much ego.... too much institutionalism) but I think this CAN happen on individual levels, among brothers and sisters in Christ. It sure is rare - but it does happen, even if just on an individual issue. I rejoice in that.
What does NOT interest me is....
1. Fellowship. I do not come to the internet for friendship kind of things, I go to church and things for such.
2. While I may briefly participate in threads such as "who do you support for president?" or "what toppings do you order on pizza," those sorts of things are WAY, WAY off my "radar" for CHRISTIAN forums. I only visit two types of forums: Science and Christian. I keep them separate and I keep my visits to those issues.
3. Fights. I'm pursuing TRUTH, not engaging in personal issues or fights or debates. Nothing frustrates me more than posters who seem to make EVERYTHING about them, everything personal, everything emotional. To ME, it's very simple: if a topic makes you uneasy: leave... don't participate. Ain't rocket science. And it's not WHO is right, it's WHAT is right.... it's about truth, not personalities and egos.
4. Mr. Rogerism. SADLY..... very, very SADLY.... a lot of sites begin as refreshingly open. But Staff - dealing with whining members who report anything that hurts their feelings - eventually try to shut up all the whiners who don't have the common sense to just not read threads that bother them. What happens (and this is VERY, VERY common)... the site slowly becomes more closed to anything honest or real or meaningful, and pretty soon, we have YET ANOTHER (oh, there are HUNDREDS of these sites!), yet another "Mr. Roger's Neighborhood" where "nice" is all that matters, and the one over-riding rule is "you are bad if someone chooses to feel badly over something you posted." The whole site devolves into relativistic meaninglessness where feelings matter over all and truth matters not a bit - which is VERY harmful to Christianity, such sites (IMO) actually are negative and hurtful.
MY perspective....
- Josiah