Unconditional love sets us up to fail. There is only one who loves unconditionally and that is God. As humans, we are created for love, but it is not unconditional. If it were, then any partner I ever had or will have, would be allowed to abuse, beat, neglect, not keep his word, or do whatever else he wants and I'd still be expected to love him. So.... no. Unconditional love is unilateral from God only, and his desire is that love will be bilateral. Either way, we love him because he first loved us - it is "conditional" in that sense. And human love needs to be reciprocated in order to have a fulfilling relationship. Imo.