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I don't have the answer here (I'm not even sure there IS a single answer)....
BUT
We (as a society) have to balance two things....
1. The immediate life needs of people. Obviously, we can't let people starve or freeze to death. NO MATTER WHY they are in a life-threatening situation, we need to help.
2. We must not enable people, but empower people. A "hand up" not just a 'hand out.' "Give a man a fish and you've fed him for a day, teach a man to fish and you've fed him for life."
Seems to me...
1. Republicans have always stressed the second, Democats the first.
2. Enabling people IMO is sinful and hurtful, it is harming people and perpetuating the problem. But it seems to be what we are doing.
3. It's a LOT harder to give someone a hand up than a hand out, thus what we like to do is the hand out. It also makes them dependent on us and politicians look to this as a solid voting block that will keep electing them in order to keep the goodies coming.
4. There are MANY reasons why a person might need help.... MANY of them very legit and no fault of their own. But (at the risk of offending), I think there is at times a clear case of irresponsibility and "short term" mentality. Where that is the case, a "help up" is HARD to do. Helping them UP - helping them actually solve their problem - always requires a high level of personal responsibility and perhaps temporary sacrifice for long term gain (school, for example). Some of the irresponsibility and the "short term" mindset is well entrenched, even culturally supported - and it can make it extremely difficult to help them and it can perpetuate via their kids (raised by them with this mentality and value). Breaking that cycle ain't easy.
5. There are many examples of those who rose out of this. Many immigrants do this. In my church is a woman whose parents came to the US from Mexico with NOTHING, absolutely nothing.... little education, no ability in English..... But both parents worked - HARD - and they made sure all of their kids (and they had a LOT of them) did well in school (all of them graduated from college). She is a manager now and makes good money, owning a very nice house, raising her kids to be responsible, contributing people, and both of them are honor students in high school. It's the American way. I've witnessed a lot of people achieve "The American Dream" in one or two generations. But they wanted to. Again, I'm NOT saying this can always be done.... but I know it OFTEN is. For them..... I (as a conservative Republican) am willing to help in any way I can.... I'm all in favor of college scholarships for such, etc., etc., etc., etc.
Sorry.
- Josiah
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BUT
We (as a society) have to balance two things....
1. The immediate life needs of people. Obviously, we can't let people starve or freeze to death. NO MATTER WHY they are in a life-threatening situation, we need to help.
2. We must not enable people, but empower people. A "hand up" not just a 'hand out.' "Give a man a fish and you've fed him for a day, teach a man to fish and you've fed him for life."
Seems to me...
1. Republicans have always stressed the second, Democats the first.
2. Enabling people IMO is sinful and hurtful, it is harming people and perpetuating the problem. But it seems to be what we are doing.
3. It's a LOT harder to give someone a hand up than a hand out, thus what we like to do is the hand out. It also makes them dependent on us and politicians look to this as a solid voting block that will keep electing them in order to keep the goodies coming.
4. There are MANY reasons why a person might need help.... MANY of them very legit and no fault of their own. But (at the risk of offending), I think there is at times a clear case of irresponsibility and "short term" mentality. Where that is the case, a "help up" is HARD to do. Helping them UP - helping them actually solve their problem - always requires a high level of personal responsibility and perhaps temporary sacrifice for long term gain (school, for example). Some of the irresponsibility and the "short term" mindset is well entrenched, even culturally supported - and it can make it extremely difficult to help them and it can perpetuate via their kids (raised by them with this mentality and value). Breaking that cycle ain't easy.
5. There are many examples of those who rose out of this. Many immigrants do this. In my church is a woman whose parents came to the US from Mexico with NOTHING, absolutely nothing.... little education, no ability in English..... But both parents worked - HARD - and they made sure all of their kids (and they had a LOT of them) did well in school (all of them graduated from college). She is a manager now and makes good money, owning a very nice house, raising her kids to be responsible, contributing people, and both of them are honor students in high school. It's the American way. I've witnessed a lot of people achieve "The American Dream" in one or two generations. But they wanted to. Again, I'm NOT saying this can always be done.... but I know it OFTEN is. For them..... I (as a conservative Republican) am willing to help in any way I can.... I'm all in favor of college scholarships for such, etc., etc., etc., etc.
Sorry.
- Josiah
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