It has been stable in NJ for a couple of months. We're slowly opening things. Restaurants are limited to 25% indoors but can also do outdoors. A majority of schools are in-person half the time, but some are all remote. Those that are still all remote have plans to open in a month or so. If we don't see a spike (and I don't think we will), we'll slowly get looser. Our big advantage is that everyone wears masks where it makes sense (and not where it doesn't).
Our church takes reservations for in person attendance to control numbers. The rest is online. Sunday school will be mostly remote with some in-person meetings. Youth groups are in person, outside. Again, I think if there are no issues caused by schools and restaurants opening, we'll get looser over time.
I'm not affected personally very much. I go to work. I don't think there's any danger, since almost no one is there. I can shop normally (with mask). I use the same restaurants I used to, but take out. Church is the main difference. It's online. Our church has good participation. We even had a new member class.
I think NJ may have taken a saner approach than some states. We never fully shutdown. There was a "stay at home order" with so many exceptions that it didn't mean much. (Religious activities was one exception.) What shut down was mostly retail and entertainment / sports. Our people seem pretty understanding and cooperative. Rules for churches have been in sync with all other in-person activities, so it's hard to raise a constitutional question.
Of course I'm lucky enough to be employed. I'm sure I'd feel differently if I were in a business that shut down, or in health care or a school, or some area that has had real challenges.