-
Welcome to Christianity Haven, thank you for visiting! If you have not already, we invite you to create an account and join in on the many discussions we have!
- Please be aware that when registering you must not register while using a VPN. Any registrations made using a VPN will be rejected.
- Additionally, registration emails are not being sent out which is an issue that is being worked on. Your registration may go into an approval queue for admin approval. We work to send manual emails to the email on file, so please ensure the email you use is one you can readily access!
Some people and not others
- Thread starter Jazzy
- Start date
Stravinsk
Composer and Artist on Flat Earth
- Joined
- Jan 4, 2016
- Messages
- 4,580
- Gender
- Male
- Religious Affiliation
- Deist
- Political Affiliation
- Conservative
- Marital Status
- Widow/Widower
- Acceptance of the Trinity & Nicene Creed
- No
I like C.S. Lewis's description of "falling in love" as a sort of milk-and-water phenomenon that is a mixture of desire, vulnerability and charity. I'm pretty sure that's somewhere close to how he described it in "The ScrewTape Letters".
Charity is needed for love to be sustained. The newness wears off. Little annoyances that were easily overlooked in the heat of desire and emotion can seem magnified without the former. The perception that the person is one's completion or perfect-for-you doesn't last the test of time. All relationships have trials. People who understand these things and are still "in love" make an effort to practice charity, and put off those things that hinder or destroy it.
Charity is needed for love to be sustained. The newness wears off. Little annoyances that were easily overlooked in the heat of desire and emotion can seem magnified without the former. The perception that the person is one's completion or perfect-for-you doesn't last the test of time. All relationships have trials. People who understand these things and are still "in love" make an effort to practice charity, and put off those things that hinder or destroy it.