Hello Ruth, The Bible contains the word of God and the word of God does not change over any time period. That means the Words of Jesus mean what they did 2,000 years ago, and Jesus said he did not come to remove or replace the Law, he came to fulfill it (Matthew 5:17-20). What Is the Law? Jesus discussed aspects of it throughout his mission. What did Jesus say about sexual relations? From the WEB version in Matthew Chapter 5.
27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery. 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.
31 “It has been said, ‘Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce. 32 But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Jesus also condemned the actions of a woman having sexual relations outside of marriage. I am a male who is attracted to females and I have my guidelines per the Word of God. Females and males attracted to the same sex have the same guidelines through the Law and the words of Jesus. We can’t change the word of God but we can change our behavior. It’s tough for all of us regardless of atttraction.
I agree, JustTheFacts! God has taught me a very effective way to channel our desires only to a spouse and to no other person.
1) As true believers, we are attached to Jesus spiritually (John 15, as a branch to a vine).
2) Thus, we are raised with Jesus to new birth and life (Colossians 3:1--first clause).
3) As a result, we can draw on his resurrection power to make changes in our lives from the old nature to his new one (rest of Colossians 3).
4) Prayer is the key to victory in our Christian lives (for example, Ephesians 6:18-20 and 1 Thessalonians 5:17).
5) As a result, we must pray daily for the Father through Jesus' victory to replace our old-nature qualities with new-nature ones.
6) Jesus' death and resurrection must be the basis for such victory prayers.
7) We must persist in prayer like the widow in Jesus' parable, one of the few in which he explains the story:
Luk 18:1
And he told them a parable to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart.
Luk 18:2 He said, “In a certain city there was a judge who neither feared God nor respected man.
Luk 18:3 And there was a widow in that city who kept coming to him and saying, ‘Give me justice against my adversary.’
Luk 18:4 For a while he refused, but afterward he said to himself, ‘Though I neither fear God nor respect man,
Luk 18:5 yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will give her justice, so that she will not beat me down by her continual coming.’”
Luk 18:6 And the Lord said, “Hear what the unrighteous judge says.
Luk 18:7
And will not God give justice to his elect, who cry to him day and night? Will he delay long over them?
Luk 18:8 I tell you, he will give justice to them speedily.