How to deal with control

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I'm used to be shy, do as I'm told etc., always stay friendly, so there are those people who never bothered me much, but lately they do. I go to something at the office. Gas seller. Do you want our gas and electricity from the farmer? It's clean energy blablabla. Doesn't talk to any of my assertive collegues of course but picks me. Well I want to think about it. It sounds nice but I'm not gonna pay more. Yeah sure, just fill this in blablabla. They just make an account, but I have 2 weeks to mail back and say I don't want it. So I mail back and say I have no money. I have to pay double, wait for months and I can't even eat decent so no thanks. He calls me. Blablabla you can get another month. Okay. Again a mail. Thanks for joining us. What?
So I send a filthy mail back: Stop bothering me!!!!!! I am not interested!!!!!!
Everyone who encounters me and is bossy does that.
My boss treated me like dirt. Just because I do not have a big mouth he wanted to fire me and I was forced to go to a psychiater. Ehm it's abuse really. Noone does anything so recently I stand up myself. Lol he asked me what happened and now I can stay only because I said I was sick and tired of this nonsense.
Controlling woman, wonder if it was a sock, belittles me on another forum and I get a ban. Lol that's when it started telling people the truth. Inspired me to do it irl too.
Roberts Liardon has good books. Learning to say no and breaking controlling powers.
I go to a dating site with a forum. Just have a nice random conversation with a guy and up comes mrs Jezebel. I just said: bye! and left.
Unbelievable. I'm not fighting flesh and blood but I'm gonna destroy that devil once and for all. Enough is enough. Destroy the powers of control, lovely title Roberts.
 
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Two weeks ago I got baptized in the Holy Spirit and since then something changed. I have to watch out that I just stay calm and not get angry the wrong way, but apparently my boss was impressed lol. He said it's like you're another person. I was very shy and timid and insecure and just let them walk over me.
 
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