In Christianity, there are standards. There is Freedom in The Lord. Someone was rejecting The World, and The World's Wicked ways, and choosing God, and God's Righteous and Holy ways. Righteousness and Holiness have definitions. They are objective.
- “ ‘The woman he marries must be a virgin. He must not marry a widow, a divorced woman, or a woman defiled by prostitution, but only a virgin from his own people, so that he will not defile his offspring among his people. I am the LORD, who makes him holy.’ ” (Leveticus 21:13-15)
- But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. (1 Peter 2:9)
God's definition of Holiness didn't change from Old to New Testament. Israel was meant to be a Holy people, separate from other nations. Many of the Laws of Moses, they may have inferred somethings about God and objective holiness. In the New Testament, the Church is Israel. Jesus is a Bridegroom looking for a Bride. The Song of Songs is in the Bible as a representation of God's love for Israel or The Church.
Christian societies tend to value virgin brides. Pagan societies may have prostituted girls at the Temple of Baal, or done other heinous things. Given someone was going to college, and there was a hook up culture in 2024, that was a secularized mysticism. Was your society more of a Virgin Israel or a Harlot Ezekiel 23, drinking a Harlot's wine?
Christianity is standards based. A group or a Church, they were meeting the standard or they were not. They were pass or fail. They were a go or a no go. They were in darkness or The Light of the Lord. (Ephesians 5:8) There is Freedom in the Lord. What does someone do with their freedom? Apostle Paul spent a lot of time correcting Churches. Jesus chastises and rebukes those he loves. (Hebrews 12:6)(Revelations 3:19) To chastise and rebuke, there was a standard. Did you understand the standards? Sin would be missing the mark.