What I'm proving is that you teach Pelagianism. It says Christ died for nobody. You end up in the same place. Why? if Christ died for all as you say, all would be saved because of the nature of the atonement. He paid for all the sins of all he died for. In this case the elect.
If you stick to the word and study many views before you settle down, you are on safe ground. Plus if you have true faith, it's because the word creates it. If faith is not present, I start over.