What criticisms should we give our pastors?

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According to scripture, how should we criticize our pastors?
 

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According to scripture, how should we criticize our pastors?
not among ourselves, but perhaps face to face with our pastor (priest in my case) but before offering a criticism take the time to talk with your priest and see what's behind whatever you think of as a fault.
 

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In private initially. If the pastor refuses to acknowledge the criticism it may be appropriate to take it to a gradually more public forum depending on the nature of it (e.g. making inappropriate comments to my wife is something I'd treat very differently to making a comment in a sermon that I didn't entirely agree with)

At my church I've never had reason to criticise the pastor. I've asked him to clarify a couple of things he's mentioned in sermons, but in a context of "how would you reconcile your point about X with these other Scriptures?" rather than "how can you possibly think X?". They led to a discussion over email (he's always open to talk in person but I knew he was busy at the time, and it wasn't anything that needed his time Right Now).

It's not necessarily a perfect match but the process in Matthew 18 about talking privately to a brother, then telling it to two or three, then telling it to the congregation, seems like a reasonable approach. It allows ample opportunity to correct something that needs to be corrected, while also giving the other person (pastor in your example) a fair chance to explain their side of things. Maybe the pastor is wrong, maybe it's a difference of opinion and nobody is inherently right or wrong, maybe the pastor was acting on information that isn't public (and maybe can't be made public).
 

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I think it is appropriate if you feel like your pastor is getting away from preaching the Word of God to say something. From what I have seen though pastors are usually criticized for other things besides their preaching such as not showing up to see someone in the hospital or for some other decisions the pastor may have made.
 

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Talk with him first. I advocate following the guidelines set out in Matthew 18. Many times, talking with the Pastor about your concern is all that is needed.
 

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According to scripture, how should we criticize our pastors?
According to Ephesians 4, we must speak the truth in love. That means we should compliment them when they do well and humbly share our concerns when they fall short.
 
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