I raised the question partly to spur a reaction, so technically it is a slight troll with a slightly click bait title. My apologies, but how else can one get attention when an unending fight about Calvinism seems to be sucking all the oxygen out of the theology forum.
It's nice to debate a little, to have a little tussle about heresy, and it is not so nice to have a never-ending combat about Limited Atonement. It seems that
@1689Dave has his view, it is firmly held, and leads (in my opinion) to an enunciation of the gospel that is rather offensive, but it is his view and he is not likely to change it regardless of the arguments put to him. Similarly I have a view, as do you
@Lamb and
@Josiah, and our view on this subject is quite similar, we're not going to be convinced by 1689Dave. He is quite polite on the whole even if his argument looks offensive. So, why labour the point, spectator readers have a huge number of posts on that topic to review if they like. There's not any need to repeat the same arguments again.
Let's stop and find new fields to debate or discuss or find things about which we agree.
The L or TULIP is, for CH, is beset by irreconcilable differences. Maybe after a month or two of new topics some people will reassess their views and maybe grow a little closer or at least a little more empathetic to the opposing view.