A Pentecostal Pastor told me his wife was his cross to bear. He planned to drive her away so she would remarry. This would allow him to use the supposed Matthew 19:9 "except clause" loophole to re-marry. He did this and is now a theologian in one of the mainline churches that have a presence on this forum. This caused me to give up and brought me into severe chastisement for taking my eyes off of Christ and placing them on the rat instead.What happened in your life that completely threw you for a loop?