It's my opinion that we Christians, when talking about God, like to use the word 'allow'. As though that removes any responsibility away from God for something we believe He would never do. Thus we just say, 'He allows it'
We don't want to say God did it. Because we just can't believe God would do it. Thus He allows it. Makes us feel better. But tracing this back, what is the difference? If God allows it, it was His will that it occur. If God allows it, He could have stopped it. But He didn't.
So, if Jesus could have prevented His death, but didn't, then He is taking His own life. Just as He said. (John 10:18)
Just because Jesus's death occurs in the natural flow of human history, doesn't mean He didn't take His own life.
I'm sure most have heard of 'suicide by cop'. That's when someone knowingly pulls an unloaded gun on a police officer, knowing they will shoot back to kill him. He didn't actually shoot himself, but then, yes he did shoot himself.
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