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Are you a take flight or fight type of person?

Sometimes I tend to take flight since I'm bashful and I've actually had people grab onto my arm so I don't get away during the conversation! :scared:
 

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It would depend on what God is telling me to do but given a choice I would take flight in most cases
 

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Well since I was abuse as a child I'm the fight kind of person. Even tho it messes my relationships up thats the kind of person I've become because of the abuse but I WON'T let it control me as I am in therapy and I have a loving husband who supports me even tho I "fight" him to. He won't leave me. :love:
 

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Depends on the specific circumstances.
 

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depends, but i'm more inclined to "fight" in that for me it means taking a stand for what i believe in....
 

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I am neither fight or flight. I'm a "freeze" kind of person. Kind of like a deer in the headlights with eyes the size of saucers, bracing for what's coming next.....
 

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I'm a run screaming from the building kind of person. . . .
 

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I'm a fight kind of person, no doubt about it. I'll even stand up to someone for a friend.

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Are you a take flight or fight type of person?

Sometimes I tend to take flight since I'm bashful and I've actually had people grab onto my arm so I don't get away during the conversation! :scared:

A lot depends on the circumstances. Usually I prefer to avoid an outright confrontation but in a situation where, for whatever reason, I figure that "fight" is the best option I usually look to end it as fast as possible. In my teenage years I did karate and my instructor always said that it's best not to fight at all but if you do have to fight you need to take someone down and make sure they don't get up again for a while - if they get up before you've got away they're still going to have the same issue as before but now they'll be angry as well.

Truth be told if I were in a situation where I had to protect my wife from some form of danger I'd be more likely to make a stand and fight with whatever it took, not least because it's no good running away unless I can be sure she's also going to escape.

ETA: As a rule I don't feel threatened in most situations, my biggest concern is wild animals when out hiking. That's why I carry a big knife in the woods :)
 

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Didn't you say you were very tall? Does that maybe play a role in your confidence to fight, besides the karate lessons?
 

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Flight usually but depends
 

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Didn't you say you were very tall? Does that maybe play a role in your confidence to fight, besides the karate lessons?

Sure, I'm about 6'4 and reasonably heavily built. I still prefer not to fight, and haven't gotten into a fight for many many years now. As a rule I'll avoid getting into a fight unless it really is a situation where I'm prepared to use as much force as I can muster to end it rapidly.
 
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