Fortunately truth is revealed by God and proposed by holy church for our belief
and holy mother church has always taught with the fathers, doctors and saints that Mary is a perpetual virgin
MARK -
Consider the following...
1. Your claim has been that Scripture clearly states that Mary was a PERPETUAL virgin. But you have taken it upon yourself to PROVE that's false, your claim is wrong, Scripture states no such thing. Shooting yourself in the foot, proving yourself wrong, undermining your own credibility (and perhaps honesty). The TRUTH is (as you've proven), Scripture is silent on this issue; it's clear that She was a virgin at the birth of Jesus but says NOTHING about after that. Sorry, it's just the truth - as you yourself have proven. Mark, you do this not only with the Marian teachings of your church but all of its teachings and claims.
2. What everyone here already knew (long before you came into our community) is that your church, The Catholic Church, teaches this. The FEW times you stated this obvious fact (Duh), no one disputed it. You are being honest. And truthful. Of course, as I'm sure you agree, just because a church teaches something doesn't make it true, so that's not a defense, it's not apologetics, it has nothing whatever to do with showing it to be true - just something now taught by The Catholic Church.
3 Many of us here are former Catholics (including me), others have Catholic spouses. We get it. Honestly, we do. We know all about CCC 85 and 87, etc., etc,, etc. Catholics are told by The Catholic Church to swallow whatever it itself now teaches "with docility" - because it itself is teaching it. This is an epistemology MANY reject (as I'm sure you do, too - you just make a single but radical exception for The Catholic Church). Okay. You believe it BECAUSE your church teaches it and tells you to accept whatever it does teach. WE GET IT. Lots of us have "been there, done that." And IF you stated that.... "I believe Mary was a perpetual virgin because my church says so and it says I am to docilicly accept what it teaches" we'll all say "okay - understood." But it would get you no further than a Mormon doing the exact, identical, same thing. AND (more importantly) it has nothing to do with showing something to be TRUE. For that, we'd need some COMMON norm (such as the words of Scripture) and we don't: your norm is whatever The Catholic Church says (obviously, you don't care much what Scripture says - only what The Catholic Church tells you it MEANS, how it itself spins it). And we don't think The Catholic Church is the inerrant, authoritative Voice of God.
4. Honesty matters. Frankly, even as a past Catholic, I've been surprised at how you often misrepresent Catholicism and the TERRIBLE apologetics you offer (where are you getting this stuff ???!!! A lot of "Evangelicals" repudiate Catholicism BECAUSE they hold that some of what it claims for itself and itself teaches is not found in Scripture - and you seem DETERMINED to prove they are right. Why in the world would you do that? You quote Mary but CHANGE her words - profoundly disrespecting her and showing "Evangelicals" how little Catholics respect her (they won't even respect her words!). You're not doing yourself good.... nor your church.
5. I suggest that you be honest.... tell the truth (rather than errors you yourself prove to be wrong)... be respectful to your fellow Christians (and they'll be far more likely to respect you back). Share your faith... explain with honesty and respect. You'll be appreciated. And you can teach our community more about your church. And that would be good. You MIGHT even begin to win back the members here who have put you on their ignore list. I'm now Lutheran. I post as such. I doubt I'm CONVERTING anyone, nor is that my intent. I'm sharing my perspective - honestly, truthfully - in hopes of advancing mutual understanding and in hopes that they'll do the same for me. Catholics have MUCH to share.... MUCH that is good.... MUCH that (IMO) Protestantism can learn from. And vise-versa.
Consider it. Perhaps.
A blessed Advent to you and yours...
- Josiah
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