I would be crazy to consider only saving the very most possible lives, without trading off the economic impacts. No one that I'm aware is being that extreme. On the other hand, no one wants to lose a million people, which was possible. I'm pretty sure we'll start making compromises in late May and June.
That is pretty much what is happening when people are told they aren't allowed to earn a living any more. A friend of mine is a self-employed hairdresser. She was told to shut down her salon so she can't earn any money. She still has to pay her mortgage and feed her children. Never mind, the feds will send her some money, eventually. It might even be enough to cover a month's bills, even if she is forcibly out of work for many months.
A million people was a guess from an early model that was based on a lot of assumptions. Compromises in late May and June are too late - huge damage will already have been done by then. Only today I was helping distribute meals to school-aged children and one of the fathers was saying how his business is cutting grass. He hasn't been allowed to work for several weeks now but still has children to feed. He's also trying to homeschool five kids but without any chance to prepare or figure out how anything will work. Sucks to be him I guess.
In the meantime calls to suicide hotlines have spiked, a report I read from the UK suggested domestic abuse had doubled since the lockdown there, and the link between unemployment and alcohol and substance abuse is well known. But never mind the human cost, it's apparently about saving lives. Which is why I can't go to my quiet local shoe store to buy a new pair of shoes but can go to Walmart with everyone else and buy a pair of shoes.
Unfortunately traditional church services may be one of the last things to restart. They have all the worst characteristics.
Never mind that pesky separation of church and state, and the freedom to assemble, and the freedom to follow religion, right?
I should note that it can't all be personal choice. In public health situations, what one person does influences what happens to others.
Many things we do influences others. The person involved in a fatal car wreck probably didn't go out that morning figuring they'd kill someone by the end of the day. Yet we don't shut down the road network, just in case. We accept tens of thousands of annual deaths and vastly more injuries as the price for freedom of movement. But when the danger is a virus rather than a two-ton hunk of metal we demand protection from it, as if the government can do much to protect us.