If you only have the one car payment for the family then it makes sense...oops had a phone call...I meant makes sense to pay a bit more.
The Honda replaced my wife's really old, worn Toyota that was too small for the HUGE child car seats of our day; we needed to get a family car. We settled on the Pilot. It wasn't cheap; of course we didn't NEED all those buttons and bells but....
The Subie is unusual.... I first looked at this as my car to replace the Miata, something that could be a family car and because I was going to take our son to the care person. That became irrelevant when my wife decided to stop working and stay home with our son. I made a job switch about that time and (much to my surprise) a company car came with the job - a car of MY choice (within cost limits) so I just went back to the Subie dealer. It's on a 3 year lease, including maintanence, but the car is mine to use as my please, I just pay the gas. Ah, job perks can be nice. Tomorrow I'll be in that Subie much of the day, working.
I don't like the whole idea of owing lots of money but I guess it comes down to what the budget can handle. We give 20% to charity, we put over 10% into investments so I think we're living within our means (the company puts more). The house we bought shortly after we married has ended up costing a lot more than I figured (home ownership seems to work that way, I've learned) and it was a bit of a fixer-upper and that fixing upping has cost a lot more than anticipated. But we're okay and the house has increased in value a lot so we could sell it now for a nice profit. With the new job, my salary has been able to pretty much absorb my wife's lost income. God is good. And I AM thankful.
What do you need.... what can you afford?