Does your internet take you away from church attendance?

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I meet a lot of people online who say that they get all the fellowship that they need in chat forums and facebook and real-time chats with christian friends so they do not attend church. Do you think that is okay? Does your internet take you away from church attendance? And before you complain that this thread is not theological enough how about you tell me what bible passages support internet-meeting Christianity as opposed to real face to face meeting Christianity?
 

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No in church 3 times a week and volunteer at food bank and a program called Bountiful Blessings
 

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No unless you are home bound by illness or transportation then it is a blessing.
 

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I meet a lot of people online who say that they get all the fellowship that they need in chat forums and facebook and real-time chats with christian friends so they do not attend church. Do you think that is okay? Does your internet take you away from church attendance? And before you complain that this thread is not theological enough how about you tell me what bible passages support internet-meeting Christianity as opposed to real face to face meeting Christianity?

No, I can't go to church most of the time and there almost never is church except for the kids. Maybe I can go this weekend to my mom if their dad wants em but it has nothing to do with internet. I'm glad I find some uplifting stuff on internet. It's hard to pray alone, found 2 digital groups now, but it's not like church. If I want some people to help me pray I put up Brownsville music. Steve Hill is in heaven already, but he still helps me pray.
 

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And before you complain that this thread is not theological enough how about you tell me what bible passages support internet-meeting Christianity as opposed to real face to face meeting Christianity?
Sorry, no complaint, but I love a good challenge ...

2 Peter 3:14-18 NASB
14 Therefore, beloved, since you look for these things, be diligent to be found by Him in peace, spotless and blameless, 15 and regard the patience of our Lord as salvation; just as also our beloved brother Paul, according to the wisdom given him, wrote to you, 16 as also in all his letters, speaking in them of these things, in which are some things hard to understand, which the untaught and unstable distort, as they do also the rest of the Scriptures, to their own destruction. 17 You therefore, beloved, knowing this beforehand, be on your guard so that you are not carried away by the error of unprincipled men and fall from your own steadfastness, 18 but grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory, both now and to the day of eternity. Amen.

The Internet are the 'letters' of this age. Sometimes letters must serve when we would rather be there in person:

Romans 1:13 NASB I do not want you to be unaware, brethren, that often I have planned to come to you (and have been prevented so far) so that I may obtain some fruit among you also, even as among the rest of the Gentiles.

1 Corinthians 16:12 NASB But concerning Apollos our brother, I encouraged him greatly to come to you with the brethren; and it was not at all his desire to come now, but he will come when he has opportunity.

2 Corinthians 1:15 NASB In this confidence I intended at first to come to you, so that you might [fn]twice receive a [fn]blessing;

2 Corinthians 12:14 NASB Here for this third time I am ready to come to you, and I will not be a burden to you; for I do not seek what is yours, but you; for children are not responsible to save up for their parents, but parents for their children.

1 Thessolonians 2:18 NASB For we wanted to come to you—I, Paul, [fn]more than once—and yet Satan hindered us.

1 Timothy 3:14 NASB I am writing these things to you, hoping to come to you before long;

2 John 1:12 NASB Though I have many things to write to you, I do not want to do so with paper and ink; but I hope to come to you and speak face to face, so that [fn]your joy may be made full.
 
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I meet a lot of people online who say that they get all the fellowship that they need in chat forums and facebook and real-time chats with christian friends so they do not attend church. Do you think that is okay? Does your internet take you away from church attendance? And before you complain that this thread is not theological enough how about you tell me what bible passages support internet-meeting Christianity as opposed to real face to face meeting Christianity?

I attend church but not as often as I'd like. I do appreciate my interactions with other Christians here on this site. I think there isn't any struggle for dominance between the two though.
 

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I have tended to be involved in the forum more lately and a few years ago for different reasons. In the first case, I was rather isolated and wanted to talk to other believers and didn't live near a lot of other people. More recently, I simply don't have a lot of friends who are believers right now in person.

In recent weeks I have actually started attending a men's group to discuss our sermon series
 

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i dont go to church. Sometimes i will watch a sermon online on Sundays but im not sure that counts. I like the fellowship here. You guys are nice to chat with :)
 

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i dont go to church. Sometimes i will watch a sermon online on Sundays but im not sure that counts. I like the fellowship here. You guys are nice to chat with :)

We're all lovely! :)
 

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I meet a lot of people online who say that they get all the fellowship that they need in chat forums and facebook and real-time chats with christian friends so they do not attend church. Do you think that is okay? Does your internet take you away from church attendance? And before you complain that this thread is not theological enough how about you tell me what bible passages support internet-meeting Christianity as opposed to real face to face meeting Christianity?

I don't think you can possibly get enough fellowship with people who are essentially strangers on the internet.

It's possible that people met online can become sufficiently close friends that genuine fellowship can exist which can, to an extent, supplement more local face-to-face fellowship, but it's equally possible that a chat board can turn into little more than an endless game of platforms as people try to one-up each other by saying the holiest thing imaginable. Online nobody knows if you just talk a good game or if you actually live it. One issue I believe affects people, spiritually as well as emotionally, is the tendency (massively fuelled by social media) to compare you own life that you see warts-and-all with someone else's life when all you see is the polished front they want you to see. In a Christian context it's very easy to see the things you struggle with and then see people in church and assume they don't have any struggles because they seem to have it all together. A group that provides fellowship and support may not be universally open about their struggles but would hopefully provide a situation where people can interact in still smaller groups to discuss things in more detail.

It might be appropriate to ask a small group for prayer because you're struggling with anxiety over something specific, or afraid of upcoming medical treatment, or in need of new employment, or similar. If your concern is more personal the chances are you'll want to discuss privately with one or two, in which case it's possible that "one or two" might not be people you see face to face. The trouble with that is that even though it means you can discuss something without losing face at church it can still mean that sin stays hidden, which generally isn't a good place to be.

Assuming "church" is doing what a church should do I don't think it's possible to replace it with anything other than a small group of friends who meet regularly (in which case that group is essentially a church anyway, even if it doesn't meet in a building called a church). If "church" is the kind of faceless megachurch where you can stop attending for three months without anyone noticing, chances are it can be adequately replaced with private devotional time (but frankly shame on the churches where a regular can leave without anybody noticing).

With respect, I think your question about Bible passages supporting internet meetings is a little daft, simply because the internet isn't mentioned in the Bible at all for fairly obvious reasons. You might as well ask where the Bible says anything about watching porn online, or trading state secrets online, or e-commerce, or anything else online. The Bible refers to when people come together (e.g. 1Co 14:26) and doesn't explicitly state how they are to come together so, in theory at least, it's acceptable for people to come together via a Skype videoconference.

There's also the issue of people who can't attend a church, whether through infirmity or merely living in an area with no churches. For people like that an online fellowship may be the best they can get.
 
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